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Thread: Need help, I don't know what happened

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    Default Need help, I don't know what happened

    I was going out with a girl for a few weeks. It seemed like it was going good from, her sending hearts in text, asking if I was free for lunch, not letting go of my hand in crowds, but out of now where it just stopped, she doesn't respond to text, she still answer calls and agrees to meeting up but something always comes up now. After awhile of this I just said I was done trying if she wants interested, she got upset by that and made it clear she was. I just don't know what happened for it to change out of nowhere and how to get her to stop flaking? She's a 10 on every level, and definitely don't wanna lose this one. Any help would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: Need help, I don't know what happened

    Just cool off. Give her some space and time. It's the busy season... I also take on too much and do too much. In saying that, don't waste your time if she has flaked on you more than 3 times. If you keep showing interest she won't respect you. Cool right off until the new year. She will wonder why.

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    Default Re: Need help, I don't know what happened

    She's a 10 on every level, and definitely don't wanna lose this one. Any help would be appreciated.

    In order to truly gain her you must be ready to lose her. Plus, lose this mentality of her being a 10 on every level, no one is perfect, it is just the image of her you created in your mind. Stop thinking about her, the easiest way to do that is by talking to other girls that you may find interesting and they too find you interesting.

    Just cool off. Give her some space and time. It's the busy season... I also take on too much and do too much. In saying that, don't waste your time if she has flaked on you more than 3 times. If you keep showing interest she won't respect you. Cool right off until the new year. She will wonder why.
    That's true too, it's the holidays, well almost, but still everyone is making plans to be with their loved ones, you guys aren't really a serious thing yet, so it is normal she'd want to see an old childhood friend than you, don't take it personaly, be objectiv a bit. And yes when you cool off suddenly after being very into her it'll make her want you more, if she wanted you in the first place, which is the case, and it wasn't just in your mind, just saying this for you to know, for any futur reference.

    I live in Paris now and met a german girl, xavier loves the germans fyi, we were going to meet up but she told me I have to be back in Germany, and that she'll see me in January. I texted her happy holidays and have a nice trip and nothing more I'm not trying to build rapport or game her in this time of year, especially not with texts! I'm not going to kid myself and think she's going to drop her family and loved ones just to keep texting me, I would be disinterested if she would do that, that's too much for a girl I've only talked to for about 2 hours live in total, you should think like that too.

    I'm gaming tourists instead. The tourists love xavier and his french accent especially the american ones.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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