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    Question how to express your desire/interest

    Hey guys,
    it is often recommended in PUA community ....Not to reveal your interest too early....specially before attracting her first....but at some point u have to show ur intentions...r8???
    So now i want to know....when is that optimal point...when u can xpress ur desire 4 her....and how to do it....
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    Default Re: how to express your desire/interest

    It should be implied throughout... but you shouldn't make her feel "special" or like she's the only girl you could feel this desire for....

    I have the problem of not wanting to lie to women to get them to sleep with me by telling them I want to be in a relationship... yet on the other hand, many of them would be unwilling to sleep with someone who wouldn't show at least a certain level of commitment... Despite what people on here say, it would be rare to find a woman who is content to be part of your polygamy sect...

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    Default Re: how to express your desire/interest

    Well in my opinion its not good to be too fast and also its not good to wait to much time .You should wait at least 1 week and no more than 3 months .And y think you shpuld say her you want to know her better or that you like her .But the whole point its that you dont need to be disperate ,girls hate this
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    Default Re: how to express your desire/interest

    Flirt right from the start!
    Don't pussy-foot around trying to be too chill & not show interest.

    Eventually you HAVE to get to the point of flirting/seduction in order to progress, so when you flirt from the first moment, you make your intentions clear that you're fun to be around & the girl will want to know more about you. (Curiosity) And curiosity IS attraction.

    But you have to flirt properly...

    Flirting from the very beginning allows you to shortcut & speed up the process, and eliminate the extra, unnecessary time that gets wasted by trying to conceal your true intentions.

    It also allows you to weed out girls who are un-receptive or whose personality doesn't mesh with yours.

    You should ALWAYS be expressing some sort of interest if you want to avoid the FRIENDZONE.


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    Default Re: how to express your desire/interest

    Always my second sentence. Nothing more, nothing less.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: how to express your desire/interest

    Hi Afnan

    Girls are suckers for compliments and they just love attention, so if you see a girl you fancy you have to flick the 'Flirt Switch' straight away and leave her in no doubt at all that you fancy her.

    So pick out something about her and then pour it on like Cream.

    If you've got an easy smile, then you could look her right in the eye, switch on your Smile and say something like 'I think I've just fallen in love again'

    But what if you feel nervous and can't switch on that Smile.

    Then you could start by saying, 'Your hair looks Amazing! where did you have it done?' and something like that can then lead on to a Conversation where you suddenly find you can Smile, which will start to make You feel even more attractive in her eyes.

    Your initial Conversation, should be all about Her, while you remain an enigma by not revealing much about yourself.

    At which point you have to guage her interest.

    Is She being just Polite or is She starting to get into you, then if She's showing enough 'Green Lights' you can escalate by saying 'What are you doing right now?' How about we get a Cup of Coffee?

    Then the next time you meet her, do the total opposite and ration those Compliments out, at which point She'll be wondering what is wrong with Her and with any luck will actively try to get a bit closer to you, so She can get the same attention that you gave her last time.

    So in other words you need to 'play her a bit' and keep her feeling a little bit insecure.

    A little bit like landing a Fish, with out breaking the line, so in the end She ends up chasing you.

    But don't tell her your life story, just drip it out a little drop at a time, talk about anything else except yourself.

    You have to come across to her as being the kind of a Puzzle, that She can never work out, which is going to set you apart from all those other guys.


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