Ok guys, Iím having a few problems with a few ladies at the moment. I have a few that are on the back burner from a while ago, as I donít really pay much attention to women. However, I feel a lot more confident with myself now, so Iíd like some advice.
First girl I met in a social group back in Nov 2013. We got along pretty well with each other. She was quite flirty, particularly for a shy girl, but I never really advanced with her. The only contact we had outside of the group was messaging each other on FB if we werenít turning up to a session. She left the group in around May 2014, for reasons unknown to anybody at the group. We never really had much contact after that besides liking each otherís statuses and photos. In Dec 2014, she deleted me from FB along with about 300 other people. With a little bit of curious stalking on her Instagram, I found out that her sister had died not long after the last session she was at. I also found out that she suffers from things such as depression and anxiety. I waited until Feb 2015 until I sent a friend request, which she ignored. At this point, Iím not really bothered whether or not I get with her, but I figure that I may as well maximise my chances. Iím planning on messaging her, but Iím not sure what to say.
Second girl I met in a drama group back in Oct 2012. We hardly worked or talked with each other until a few months ago. We started talking more at the group, but then the group finished for summer. The problem is that this girl is very inconsistent with responses on FB. Sheíll either not see your message or see it and respond immediately. In Aug 2015, we started talking a bit, but she then ended up not seeing two of my messages. Anyway, she went off to a university which is a 3 hour train ride away from me. At some point in Sep 2015, we then started to converse much, much more. The problem was that I sometimes took hours to respond to things, as I was busy at the time. Messages jumped back and forth for a couple of weeks, until she stopped replying. It was a message in which I jokingly called her accent dorky, but she didnít see it. She did see the message I sent a week later however, but she did not respond to it. I spent the next three weeks doing other things and chatting up other ladies, I sent her yet another message late one night. She almost immediately replied to this whilst I was in bed. Unfortunately, she didnít see the message I sent to her the next morning. Another month went by (late Nov 2015 at this point) and I send another message, which she does not see. Sheís likely back from university at the moment, so what should I do?
Third girl I met in school back in May 2013. We didnít really see each other much until about Jan 2014, where she became a bit too flirty with me to the point where it was a bit off-putting. Also at the time I was trying to get with one of her friends, but I didnít succeed in that regard. She ended up just being someone Iíd hold light convo with if she was around. We havenít talked at all since then. Not sure if Iíd want anything serious with her now, but how should I proceed with messaging her?