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    Von
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    Default Opinions about this Girl, hard to get or not interested... we did kiss

    My background: Been in a relationship for 5 years with a girl everyone wondered how i had her (we never found the answer)... Officially single for past 7 months.... had a dozen dates which 11/12 I had sex or kissed..... Now I meet a woman I am excited about (yet every time I am excited it doesn't work... but I kissed this one... improvement)

    Now I've meet this 1 girl. At a work event in a museum (she works in another company), she drags me in the exhibit, took her number to ask her out outside of these work events and implied if she wanted to volunteer somewhere.

    1st out:
    We went to a cocktail together, than supper, she had brought wine, tried to kiss her didn't work out, but there entire time she was looking at my lips... A couple of time, she said she was tired.... but it lasted until 2:30am than dropped her home. Asked her out again.... she said sure

    2st out:
    I was next to her office, asked her out for coffee.... no kiss nothing, she was cold, last 5 minutes (she was at the office, which was fine).... Confirmed her for a 2nd ''date'', she said: I'll think about it.

    I reply: Let me know now, otherwise I'll organize differently. She says yes

    3st out:
    We were supposed to go somewhere didn't work out, because she had an accident at work. We ended up having chocolate for 1 hour, (although she said she had only 30minutes free.... due to having to redo all the work she lost + a Christmas girl night). We confirm our 4th meeting.

    4th meeting:
    We finally do the activity, she loved it (parachute). We go out for sushi at the restaurant I kiss her. We go walk end up in a shopping spot, I know the owner, buy stuff for me, take my car... go around looking at houses. Bring her back to her place, kissed couple of time in the car. She said: next time well go over to your place... she says text me back when you get home... enter building without looking back.

    Before that night... she barely had more than 3-words textos (I used a line: for every time you text me under 3 words, its 25cents$).... worked helped me get to 4th meeting.

    We chatted over the week, told her I was going to meet up girlfriends for drink or supper (boyfriend introduction) and should finish by X.... by X she was texting me or sending me a pick for Christmas gift.

    Making it short : Ask her out, she said she's busy that date, text her a romantic lip kissing text, no answer, ask her how was her Christmas... she ask if I am free the 28.

    I confirm the 28, she said she got the date wrong.... she propose January 3rd

    January 2nd.... I confirm.... she says YEH for tea, tell her to meet around 3pm, got the place booked for 4h30.... than text her... if we can meet at 2h30 cause we could do see this exhibit at the next door museum....

    Her answer : Ah ah loll.... btw, I have to meet my grand ma at 8.... followed by... well dinner is at 6h30 (I had invited her for dinner after).... It's not the first time she does that, i am aware her ''sunday'' is family dinner'' but she proposed the date.

    First time i meet a girl like her... she's gorgeous but at the same time really into the ''fancy stuff'' (which is new for me) or extremely girl (shopping, tea etc...).... I dont think she liked the museum idea but we meet there (and she had drag me inside the exhibit).

    I am at a point.... maybe she's flaking, but we did kiss, I know she's busy,I am used to complicated girl.... maybe the rescheduling (with few spelling mistake) didn't help..... after we kissed she did send longer text but always a awww! or ah ah lol! ahahah.... some text she did write LOL and xoxo

    You guys opinion? Where should i go from there ? Any things to improve ?

    I know its a big post but thanks for your time.

    I am surrounded by women all gorgeous, but i work like crazy...never expected to go on dates again lol and recently single (and clumsy at this seduction game). This girl excited me and I want to know where i am standing.

    The January 3rd, first time i see her since kissing. And first repetitive date with 1 girl since I got single. Oh and its not rare she replies at 4am

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    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
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    Default Re: Opinions about this Girl, hard to get or not interested... we did kiss

    Seems boring.... work on inner game and be more macho.... join a gym, start fighting MMA, go kill a grizzly bear and skin it and eat it....

    recapture your manhood.... go live in the woods for a month....

    Seriously, this is not a troll post... this is my advice....

    Take that grizzly bears blood and smear it all over you like war paint...

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    Von
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    Default Re: Opinions about this Girl, hard to get or not interested... we did kiss

    LOL I do all of that already :P

    But you are right on the inner game and the ''manhood'' I guess i play to nice and still some leftover from my relationship.

    Oh she said: No to going further.... than she started diging about my life and told her I am not always nice and not easy to live with :P.

    Anyway, I am glad its out of the way, she was 10/10 (the usual I am surrounded by) but something wasnt working for me I tried to push and being to nice (or average) like you said. Did learn alot

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    Default Re: Opinions about this Girl, hard to get or not interested... we did kiss

    Quote Originally Posted by Von View Post
    LOL I do all of that already :P

    But you are right on the inner game and the ''manhood'' I guess i play to nice and still some leftover from my relationship.

    Oh she said: No to going further.... than she started diging about my life and told her I am not always nice and not easy to live with :P.

    Anyway, I am glad its out of the way, she was 10/10 (the usual I am surrounded by) but something wasnt working for me I tried to push and being to nice (or average) like you said. Did learn alot
    Okay then you have to strap yourself in body armor, go to Iraq and charge the front lines like Rambo....

    That's what I suggest.


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