So you've been out with this girl.... sometimes it flows sometimes not.... you brought her to a unique activity, nice lunch, went around.... etc.... couple of dates that last longer.
She always look at your lips.
Eventually you kissed at a restaurant and in your car (at her door).... she text alot more, try to get your attention but it slowly dies out.... although you try to reach her she's busy.
She proposes to go out, you go out...... You want to know where this is going.
Than you tell her: Look I like you, you know that, I want to know where we going and what you feel.
Than she blows you off: I am not looking for anyone or anything serious, I wanna focus on my studies and work, i am busy etc....
You say: Great we both looking for the same thing, I know what i want and where i am going, I've been further with you than alot of women. I am a direct guy and wanna know where it goes. I am not necessiraly looking for a relationship but I don't want you has a friend. I want to see you casually. Got enough girlfriends as it is. I get often I am the nice guy to marry.
Than she says: I like your honesty, what you mean by nice guy to marry?, she asked about if i ever cheated on my ex, alot of guys try to sleep with her, that she been in love 2 times, who are my friends, what are our nickname, etc.... she started digging what i do with them etc....
1) What you guys thing ?
2) How should you ask a girl you like to move into a relationship or a casual sex no strings ?
I told her that at a tea place, drove her back. And finished: See you someday
3) What should I have done or improve.... i did play the nice guy after the rejection like it did nothing to me (we both 26)
4) Should i text or call her back like in 2 months? To rebuild a interest etc...
--------------------- Since i got single after a 5 years relationship... in 7 months been in dozens of dates.... scored 11/12.... this one was the first I saw more than twice. Not that used to the ''dating'' life