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Thread: Day 3, what to do?

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    Default Day 3, what to do?

    I met this girl at a lounge, took her on a day 2, got very strong IOIs. Now, I am 100% sure she is in to me, and I am into to her, she has a nice body and nice personality, but I am honestly not looking for a LTR monogamous, I am looking for an open relationship. What is the best way to go about suggesting this??

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    Default Re: Day 3, what to do?

    You don't have to go for a long term thing man, there is nobody telling you that you have to man! As long as you lead, and abide by a few rules, that won't even get brought up most of the time.

    Rule#1- No jealousy on your part. Absolutely none, if she brings up how another guy was hitting on her or she thinks this guy is hot etc etc... you CANNOTTTT insinuate that you are jealous in any way. A lot of times when a girl wants an LTR with you and you don't she will "test the waters" with you a bit, and see if you get jealous. If you do, she takes this as a signal that you are wanting one with her too, and it will change the dynamic.

    Rule #2- Do not allow jealousy on her part. Again, absolutely none. If she says "you can't do that!" or "who's this girl?" It is either time for A- to have a discussion with her, or B- break it off. You as the man must make the rules on what is allowed and what is not (lay boundaries the right way, you don't have to force anything on her but if she wants an open relationship with you... this is how it's going to be).

    Rule #3- Don't stop gaming. Seriously. Too many times I have caught myself, and others getting into an open relationship, get comfortable because they know they can get pussy/hang out with this girl anytime they want, and they are already both invested, and it turns into an exclusive thing. Though this isn't always terrible, it usually turns out badly.

    Rule#4- No talking about the outside instances beyond the relationship, meaning do not ask her about the guys she is fucking (or if there are any), and she can't ask you anything. You will be fucking/flirting with other girls, and she will be fucking/flirting with other guys. It's a win-win, as long as you can get over this.

    How to bring it up with her if she isn't really sure/getting jealous/never done this before/really really wants an LTR-
    I say something along the lines of how I don't want this to hold either of us back, and I don't want this to turn into a needy/jealous thing. "I like the way things are now, we are having fun, aren't you?" usually does the trick

    You're right to hold open relationships. For me it was very difficult because I was in a 5 year toxic relationship, ultra jealous/needy, and she actually ended up cheating on me. Fucking killed, so I was super needy for the first year or so of game... until I learned to let that go.

    You'll find that this mentality ironically brings in more women, because you are not really caring about the outcome (you can fuck your girl, you're getting laid tonight regardless), and you have some abundance/pre selection already. Get a girl who is cool with 3 somes and... well... you know.

    Good luck brother,

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    Default Re: Day 3, what to do?

    Well action and make love with her ,and you will more after that maybe you will fall in love ,but dont make the mistale to not act


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