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    Default Sometimes sacrifices must be made to be an Alpha Male

    People don't really understand why I am an Alpha Male or care.


    But I'll tell you why anyway.

    I broke up with my Ex-GF about 2 years ago and moved on but the same dude she cheated on me with is still around.

    I am already a couple of ex-girlfriends past all this.

    Broke up with the hairstylist
    Cinderella broke up with me

    2 Girl Rotation
    On the Tinder chick right now (been about 3 weeks)
    Also rotating my Ex-GF's friend (who popped up last weekend wanting to "chill" with me)

    I broke up with my ex-gf against my best wishes but I eventually moved on and realized yeah I was never happy with her. I did do it partially thinking I could get better girls.

    I was right!

    That thirsty dude never moved on.

    The dude that showed up to the house in the middle of the night and tried to single handed-sabotage my set with my GF.

    He got kicked out
    and I stayed...because I was the Alpha Male (not becoming obsessed)

    So later she said he was crying or something


    Then I broke up with her over all this nonsense (I want it all or nothing as I am a jealous person)
    and she told me

    "You're my sun, moon, and stars."

    I said (over the break up)
    "Great go find another rainbow cuz this ship has already set."

    But this was over a 10 hour break up that she wouldn't let die (until I tricked her into hating me by pretending to like her again and then breaking up with her again)

    But in other words I was the top guy (so he was no competition)

    Well my "no competition" is with her to this day. This proves my initial point.

    Needy guy gets stuck with the bad girlfriend (of course NOW she's a good one because I somehow changed her)

    She didn't want commitment before but now that I warped her I guess she decided to move heaven and earth to be together haha. And that folks is WHY you don't settle for a bad set.

    Because that "needy dude" sure got the girl. But he is stuck with her. Never moved on since. Still stuck and I am ex-girlfriends past all this.

    It makes me feel like I am on top of my game because I can get a girlfriend almost like clockwork and here this dude is afraid to move on. I am already working on her friend but here he is chilling with the same chick same chick.

    Her friend is more available no other dudes so no competition (so I got it made essentially) but it is better this way since I realize now I like her friend more anyway after the stuff we been through. It will be really great if I run into my ex again showing her off as my new girlfriend but maybe I am getting ahead of myself.


    Either way when you are an Alpha Male you can say no to practically anything knowing there's chicks on back order. Where as needy dude is holding on holding on for dear life. So sometimes sacrifices must be made which needy dude doesn't understand. Sometimes you must move on. There's always more.

    He understands nothing. It's all thirsty thirsty thirsty for the only girl that likes me. Whereas I am removing removing more and more chicks lately to make room for BETTER chicks

    The Tinder chick and
    the Ex-GF's Friend

    where as I removed the EX-GF and the Hairstylist (because I didn't have feelings for them). Moving into new romance this year. But he is stuck in 2014

    I can handle maybe about 3 girls at any one time so I only need to hunt for one more. I know I couldn't handle 5 if I tried so when I go out sarging this Summer it will be for 3 if I am down 2 or whatnot.

    Lesson learned folks!

    Making room for better brings better.
    Being needy for that sub-par chick isn't worth it. I would never have been happy. But now I am happy to be getting top tier chicks these days!!
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Sometimes sacrifices must be made to be an Alpha Male

    It is like that. There are 2 options, be doormat or be the alpha. So u chose the alpha way which is must for us. Sacrifaces are the facts, which make the male to alpha. Accept it, get over with it. There are POF. Nice decision.

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    Default Re: Sometimes sacrifices must be made to be an Alpha Male

    Quote Originally Posted by Dicemaster View Post
    It is like that. There are 2 options, be doormat or be the alpha. So u chose the alpha way which is must for us. Sacrifaces are the facts, which make the male to alpha. Accept it, get over with it. There are POF. Nice decision.
    Yes definitely for sure. At the time it was not conventional and didn't make any sense giving up "a good thing" with a sub-par hot chick who was definitely on the top of my radar and I on hers. But barely getting good with 9's at that point she was trying to get me to settle but I wasn't happy yet cuz I could better and she wanted too much of my time.

    So looking back it felt likes bad decision (stay in comfort) but seeing it now it was a good decision (because my learning accelerated) to where I am now.

    Able to approach 10's successfully. Something I couldn't do when I was with her!! But know I have no drawbacks to approaching who I want but more importantly being with who I want. And now I am even being picky about personality. Either way I was budding into the Alpha Male before with her. But now I have become one. I still have women struggles but my women struggles are with 10's and chicks I really dig (as in off scale but still my kinda hot). So I guess you could say I was never really attracted to her but I am attracted to her friend? That's why I plan on hooking up with her friend here this year.

    What I mean is I didn't let the world dictate to me what I deserved I dictated to myself. All the dudes fawning for her but I had other goals in mind.

    Meaning it it was always about an upgrade. So not only moved on from her but better than her. I even had feelings for her friend back then but we just barely agreed to meet up. Well when you become the Alpha Male you should be with who you want. Right now it's her friend.

    Method of sexting on the ex-GF's friend got me more validation than 3 months of being nice to my ex-gf ever did. Anyway those sacrifices cost me my ex-gf but it got more options than I know what to deal with. I have the skills now. I learned now I am ready to enter the application of my learning.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack

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    Default Re: Sometimes sacrifices must be made to be an Alpha Male

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    Yes definitely for sure. At the time it was not conventional and didn't make any sense giving up "a good thing" with a sub-par hot chick who was definitely on the top of my radar and I on hers. But barely getting good with 9's at that point she was trying to get me to settle but I wasn't happy yet cuz I could better and she wanted too much of my time.

    So looking back it felt likes bad decision (stay in comfort) but seeing it now it was a good decision (because my learning accelerated) to where I am now.

    Able to approach 10's successfully. Something I couldn't do when I was with her!! But know I have no drawbacks to approaching who I want but more importantly being with who I want. And now I am even being picky about personality. Either way I was budding into the Alpha Male before with her. But now I have become one. I still have women struggles but my women struggles are with 10's and chicks I really dig (as in off scale but still my kinda hot). So I guess you could say I was never really attracted to her but I am attracted to her friend? That's why I plan on hooking up with her friend here this year.

    What I mean is I didn't let the world dictate to me what I deserved I dictated to myself. All the dudes fawning for her but I had other goals in mind.

    Meaning it it was always about an upgrade. So not only moved on from her but better than her. I even had feelings for her friend back then but we just barely agreed to meet up. Well when you become the Alpha Male you should be with who you want. Right now it's her friend.

    Method of sexting on the ex-GF's friend got me more validation than 3 months of being nice to my ex-gf ever did. Anyway those sacrifices cost me my ex-gf but it got more options than I know what to deal with. I have the skills now. I learned now I am ready to enter the application of my learning.
    The best rival of you is yourself. Be in challange all the time. You got in the hand uranium, but u should able to do with it an atom bomb. So your target is there, only thing actully you need is a good game plan.

    I ve been same situation with you. Exact same. I did my shit and she left me but after i ve chased her i stopped and said to myself, WTF is she was fully capable of satisfaying me, why d have cheated her. So i stopped chasing her, she came back and wanted to reunion but i refused. I fuck many chicks after that point. Thank her to open my eyes..

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    Default Re: Sometimes sacrifices must be made to be an Alpha Male

    Alpha is the ultimate form. The things I can do, get away with and the experiences I have are all thanks to my confidence in handling any situation and understand that I will only accept what I deserve and I will take what's mine. If you do not exceed/meet my standards I will respect you for trying but that's where it ends.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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