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Thread: Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversation

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    Default Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversation

    Hello fellow PUA's,

    So here's the story... Broke up with my gf a month or so ago due to her jumping on the crazy train suddenly, then come to find out lost my job a week later, so my self esteem took quite a good hit. On the road to recovery nicely now, so any honest and straightforward advice on today's recent developments would be great...

    So as a result, I have had to stay at parents place, and using my local gym there and being a gym rat, I work out at least 5 days a week, so I am in good shape. I have seen an HB9 working out there a few times and she seemed pretty hardcore into gym, seemed to be well on her way to fitness competition shape (in my opinion), and seemed friendly to other members of the gym, but not really giving me much that the "whatever" glaceover from time to time.

    Today seemed to be quite a different story, we exchanged looks when I got there, but did not seem to even acknowledge any slight smiles I was giving. I was working out hard a little later, and our eyes met, I smiled a little bigger, and she broke into a big smile and began chatting about her workout and trying to keep going, etc. I laughed and edged her on slightly with some enthusiasm, and she continued.

    A little while later, we were nearby again, and during our rest break, and happened to looked over and smiled and raised them eyebrows again, and she continued chatting to me again, and I asked about what she was training for, etc. She is just trying to keep fit because she loses weight very well, but gains easily too, etc. Then she gave me the ioi and asked for my name (I held this back because I wanted to see if she would do so) and when times I generally worked out (another IOI?) and how busy it was, finding a spot, etc. She also threw in a story in which she mentioned kids (I have dated single mothers before, not a big deal). I noticed she had no wedding ring on or tan line indications where there would be one, so guess I would have to find out the story there.. She seemed to laugh a lot at our conversation and had great eye contact. We also exchanged goodbyes as she left..

    So, I seemed to have some IOI's and so forth, and I would really like to see where this leads to, but I want to tread lightly, and was kinda careful to keep my info to a low level and let her give the IOI's and let her talk. I have not done much/any gym pickup, so any advice, comments or questions would be great as well if anyone has more experience in that area as well.

    Cheers and thanks. Look forward to feedback.

    Derealwildone

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    Default Re: Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversa

    Gym pickup is similar to other situations like bus pickup, classroom pickup, etc. You want to keep it semi casual, and not get too "gamey", as you are probably going to be in the same social setting with them. Nobody wants to be "that guy" who she walks in to the gym, sees, and rolls her eyes. *fuck, he's here* "uh hi!..." *avoids free weights area*

    Use your social acuity to get a conversation going with her, and chat for a bit. When you are leaving, or she is leaving, that is when you run game. "You seem like a cool girl" or "You're pretty cute" (light game here), give me your number we'll meet up for coffee or something.

    That's it man
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    Default Re: Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversa

    You did well.
    Next time try to incorporate some teasing/flirting. If she's running on the treadmill, for example, say something like "you're running there for so long, but you don't seem to be going nowhere!" with a smile. This is teasing, say things like that.

    One very important thing: after having flirted (and being given IOIs), either go right to the meet (right after the gym, for example, to eat something), running together, or simply say "hey, it was good talking to you, we should meet outside the gym!". And then get her phone number.

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    Default Re: Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversa

    Thanks guys, appreciate the great feedback..

    One thing I did forget to mention was that she was on her way to work after the gym, so I did not even bother with the "meet after the gym" option right away. I plan to get to it as soon as the opportunity is there and done a little more teasing / flirting too (thanks for the great treadmill line, haha), but I know that I can't wait to long and need to strike while the iron is hot. She seems chatty enough that I think I will be able to guide her to when she has some free time after or outside the gym. Phone number is definitely key.

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    Default Re: Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversa

    I had a random meet at a gas station slip away. The lesson I took away from that was to say something like this the next time. For any kind of random short meet. "Hey, I really like talking to you. Can I get you number so we can chat some more."

    The key there was we were having a really nice, out of the blue conversation. Well, it was not out of the blue for me. She looked great from behind. Nice jeans, spike heels, nice upper body from the rear. Her face was not as good as the rear view was, but not bad by any means. So, the next time you are chatting, and one of you is going to leave, go for a Number Close.

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    Default Re: Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversa

    Next time you are in there Just walk upto her with your phone in your hand. Go to give it to her and say: Give me your number.

    No hi, no smile. Just Boss it, she won't expect it and because it's Gym your Alpha level has to be at full retard. She will get so excited by it. So masculine that she will just obey.

    I did this at the gym with a personal trainer which showed IOIs and saw me enter at the gym every day and look at me and I just ignored most the time.

    Then one day Im doing chest press on the bench in front of the mirror. She just walked behind me 10m behind was offset maybe a metre to my left about to do barbell squats. Me during a set half way make eye contact with her through the mirror. Rest the weights on my knees, stand up still making eye contact. Drop the weights on the ground and walk towards her taking my phone out of pocket. At this stage half the gym was looking at me and I put the phone close to her hand while staring at her and said "Give me your number"

    She put it in. I said "Name?"
    she told me. I walk back to my chest press and keep working out. The whole gym at that point up until end of contract showed me so much respect and I got so many IOIs from women and female trainers.

    every now and then you just have do something that nobody expects.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Need advice on reigning in a gym hottie - Gotten good IOIs and conversa

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Next time you are in there Just walk upto her with your phone in your hand. Go to give it to her and say: Give me your number.

    No hi, no smile. Just Boss it, she won't expect it and because it's Gym your Alpha level has to be at full retard. She will get so excited by it. So masculine that she will just obey.

    I did this at the gym with a personal trainer which showed IOIs and saw me enter at the gym every day and look at me and I just ignored most the time.

    Then one day Im doing chest press on the bench in front of the mirror. She just walked behind me 10m behind was offset maybe a metre to my left about to do barbell squats. Me during a set half way make eye contact with her through the mirror. Rest the weights on my knees, stand up still making eye contact. Drop the weights on the ground and walk towards her taking my phone out of pocket. At this stage half the gym was looking at me and I put the phone close to her hand while staring at her and said "Give me your number"

    She put it in. I said "Name?"
    she told me. I walk back to my chest press and keep working out. The whole gym at that point up until end of contract showed me so much respect and I got so many IOIs from women and female trainers.

    every now and then you just have do something that nobody expects.
    LOL. Serious Alpha shit. Yeah. Just boss it.


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