First time poster, I know this is really immoral so feel free to delete it. Also sorry in advance for my english because I am not a native english speaker.
So I met this girl in my college class a few months ago, (Yeah I kinda realized its a bit late to post this) and we have been talking & Texting ever since. The only reason I did not progress further is that she is currently in a relationship with some other dude, and they have been together since highschool. I have met him a few times and they seemed to be doing ok.
The only issue between them is he lives on campus of another college and is a bit further away from her than I am (1hr drive vs 15 min drive), so they usually don't see eachother every day.
Her boyfriend once found out about this somehow and was giving her warnings, but she told him to stop being paranoid and there is nothing to worry about. Things did not change between me and her after that.
As of now I think she is pretty comfortable with me (we could play with different parts of eachothers body if that counts), and we've been out a few times, although not really in a dating environment.
I fully understand that this is either going to take a long time or its not going to work at all, but I am willing to give a try because I happen to have quite a bit of free time and I love her.