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    Question Met a waitress and backed myself in a corner

    Hey everyone, I'm new here and in need of some advice. I feel like I totally backed myself in a corner.

    Here's the story, last week I was at a bar with some friends, one of which encouraged me to talk to the waitress. I did and found out she's looking for a job in the same business I'm in. I offered to pass her resume along and even help with her website (I'm a web developer).

    I got her business card, sent her an email so she could send me her resume. She replied a couple days letter and was very enthusiastic. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like there is an opening in my company for her. Also she hasn't asked for my help with her site yet; although she did say that once the design is done she would love my input.

    Here's the thing, I don't want to wait around for the possibility of her design being done soon. It could take weeks for all I know. I would like to meet up with her outside of her job and really try to start something. It seems like my only option is the direct approach but I don't want to seem like I helped her to get something in return. Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Met a waitress and backed myself in a corner

    Hi, welcome to the forums. It seems like she was more interested in about the job rather than you, or the connection between you two. I think it would be wise to make your intentions clear yeah..

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    Default Re: Met a waitress and backed myself in a corner

    Thanks. Any tips on what I could've done differently?

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    Default Re: Met a waitress and backed myself in a corner

    offer women nothing more than your companionship, then you will surely avoid such uncertainty. At least at the start, after making your intentions clear you can give her some pointers or even make some connections for her, but I think it ought to be done after you have been dating for a while, and especially not just after you had sex. That would be like thanks for giving me something I wanted, here's something in return. A big no no haha.

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    Default Re: Met a waitress and backed myself in a corner

    haha that makes perfect sense, thanks

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    Default Re: Met a waitress and backed myself in a corner

    The instant you tried to fly under her radar than be honest with your intentions she lost all interest. If she was interested at all in you she'd have done all the work already.


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