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    Default Did I go too fast?

    Hey bros, I'm new to the forum! And I have women probs. I went to a type of sex party last week and felt like I hit it off good with a few girls and got contact info from one of them.. it's how the dice rolled.

    So I sent her a message the next day and she waited a day or two to message back. I messaged her later that day and said I wanted to hang out and gave her my open times for the next couple days since I'm starting a new job and my schedule is chaotic a bit.

    It's been 3 days and I haven't heard back. Was I coming on too strong or is this just part of the game? I don't want to come across as needy yet at the same time I want to put what I want out there directly. Idk if I need to man up right now or of my anxiety is warrented because of bad moves. I know women like to play the wait game but Idk why she would do that after things went so well in person.

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    Default Re: Did I go too fast?

    Before we get into this describe exactly what happened during your initial encounter the best you can and ill do my best to help you out from there.

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    Default Re: Did I go too fast?

    I pretty much already summed it up. I went to a sex party, met several women there that I played with. One in particular commented about me and her energies feeding into each other. And we had a good convo with similar backgrounds and she was in proximity to me quite a bit. Me and her were the last to leave and I mentioned a site I was on and she gave me her username on the site.

    I messaged her the next day saying to the effect that I was making sure I got the right profile, but didn't get a response for a couple days, and the response I did get was a simple Yeah this is me, with a . I responded several hours later with a comment on her username and told her she was cool and I wanted to hang out, etc. And I gave her my availability for the next few days and told her I was starting a new job and didn't know my time off after the next few days.

    Never heard back from her. My guess is either I shouldn't have been so eager to see her again or she just never checks that site because she has no activity on there. The other option is that she plays the wait game with guys. Thing is, she offered me her username, I didn't ask for it. I seriously don't want to crawl back and message her again but I don't want to toss her out. Maybe I need to consult a psychic lol and see what's up.

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    Default Re: Did I go too fast?

    Wow I can see why this forum is the best pickup forum on the web. (Sarcasm) Over a week and not really any responses.

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    Default Re: Did I go too fast?

    Was any report, flirting done or did you make it sound like a dry business meeting when you messaged her?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Did I go too fast?

    Never assume that the job is done until you have actually got what you want. They require a lot of sensitive motivation between any escalation. Keep it playful. When establishing intention use better words then "Cool" she didn't go to a "Sex Party" for popularity
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Did I go too fast?

    Thanks Tyrone! That actually came at just the right time.

    I got a reply back from her, it was short but had energy behind it. (It wasn't cold.) It came about a week after I messaged her and she basically said she just started new work and was really busy. I was just going to drop her but I read "never assume that the job is done until you have actually got what you want." That's a cool quote.

    I waited a week and messaged her back. I kept it short, made a joke off of something she said, and told her I was super busy too but to hit me up if she wanted to hang sometime anyways.

    And yes, all my messages and hers were playful and not dry. So was the interaction in person.

    I have an unusual approach at pickup. I give the girls opportunity to come to me and show me interest, I never chase them. IDK how that stacks with the norm here on this forum, but I have pretty good results from it for the most part. I have to do the closing though still, but it's never a cold close, it's always her looking at me with a glimmer of hope that I may ask for her number.

    I think this chick is keeping it hard to get because she's not used to any of this and I'm the kind of guy that chicks fall for, which isn't a good thing in some cases. I'm trying to be forward without looking like I'm needy or that I want commitment.


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