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    parapa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is she playing with me?

    So I know this girl for like 3 months. Things have been improving lately pretty fast and last Saturday we went out with a friend of ours in an exhibition. Afterwards we sat for a drink for a couple of hours and then the other friend of ours went away, but that girl that I like wanted to stay with me and go for a walk. We walked for about 25 minutes, she was going arm to arm with me(she made us go like that) and had a pretty good time, also showed IOIs to me. We talked on facebook after Saturday only a bit and 2 days before I decided to tell her to go out with me one of the next two days for a drink. She was kinda sick(really she was) and told me that she would tell me if she could. But then we started talking for like HOURS on facebook these last two days. Today we haven't spoken at all and she didn't even tell me that she can't go out with me, or even arrange another day. Now I'm thinking of going cold turkey. What do you guys think? How should I proceed?

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    parapa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Is she playing with me?

    So I told her yesterday I was going to a party today and if she wanted we could meet somewhere and go together. Today she talked to me on fb and she was like:

    -So, you're a party animal aren't you?
    -Yeah. that's my 6th party for this week. So are you coming or not?
    -I dont think so. Maybe some other time. Thank you for the invitation.
    -Too bad. Maybe some other time.


    We were talking till 2:30 am on fb with this girl 3 days ago, she was clinging on me on Saturday...she even texted me on 6:00am...wtf I don't get it

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    Default Re: Is she playing with me?

    Should of kissed her when walking together after exhibition.

    Side note: look up shit test in regards to "party animal" statement made.

    With long conversations your building a lot of Report, that's going to get you friend zoned really quick, cool it off for abit, the reapproach shorter, playful but first time be respectful to warm her up and lower defences, don't ask her out, just make it fun, close it.

    Slowly robbing her curiosity from rest of world, while maintaining your value and not coming across to eager.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Is she playing with me?

    So back on the field report...I won't be wasting time about how things escalated, we went out 3 times so far and on the 2nd date I made my move. It wasn't so "warm", but on the 3rd date it became much "warmer".

    Yesterday..

    Me: Let's go out today, I got big plans
    HB: I'll think of it
    Me: You got 5 minutes

    After 5 minutes I asked her and she was like "I haven't thought of that yet"...5 hours later she asked me if I was still available. I said that I was going out to see a friend at a bar and if she wanted to come she would be a nice surprise. No message, no phone from her...well after that we had a msg conversation and I asked her if she really wants to try to do something with me, cause I do, for the time being at least.

    She told me she likes me, a lot, yet her previous breakup(about a year ago) is still heartbreaking. I told her, "I ain't talking to you again, until you kiss me" and she will come to meet me tonight after that(btw she is constantly messaging me why I'm not talking to her, gonna show I'm really turned off). I really like this girl, but I don't want to become the one she will use as an emotional branch to get over her ex(whom she dumped).

    What is your opinion.

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    Default Re: Is she playing with me?

    It's a year, get over it. Tell her that her bags are to heavy and limit any progress and you're not going to talk to her until she gets over her ex.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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