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    Pandasrcool is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is it ok to ask where the relationship is going?

    So I've been seeing this girl for a month. Mostly in a group setting (same social circle) but we've been out just the two of us to dinner a couple times, to the beach, etc.

    All was going smooth until I took her back to my place. After laying on the couch to watch a movie, she clammed up, becoming unresponsive to my attempts to be more physical.

    While she was the chasing me in the beginning, the tide has turned and now I've been putting more effort into chasing her. Realizing this, I'm taking a step back and texting less.

    She is super busy with work and school right now so it could just be that, but if she's not into me I'd like to know so I can move on.

    Question: Is it ok to straight up ask what she thinks of the relationship? Or is that lame since we haven't gone anywhere (physically) yet?

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    Default Re: Is it ok to ask where the relationship is going?

    This is why it's paramount to establish your intentions before you show them.

    Before I begin anything with anyone I intend to be more then friends with I make sure they are aware that I'm attracted to them.

    I said word for word with a girl I'm seeing at the moment after we agreed on a day to meet: "Just so there is no confusion, I'm attracted to you."

    I Feel like because you were in a group and only met up individually a couple times, she may of assumed you were only friends and so resisted when you made attempts.

    She also could of just been Frigid.

    Maybe she was malested as a child and you doing what your doing reminded her.

    Try saying this "Hey, the other night when we were on the couch together and I was touching you, why did you tighten up into a defensive ball?"

    by by saying that she can't beat around the bush or act aloof and will tell you straight up why she didn't.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Pandasrcool is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Is it ok to ask where the relationship is going?

    Man I think you're on to something with the molestation idea. That crossed my mind before but the more I think of it that would really explain her actions.

    I'm going out of town for a week but will readdress this with her when I get back and will post an update.

    Thanks so much for taking the time to reply!


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