Re: Is it ok to ask where the relationship is going?
This is why it's paramount to establish your intentions before you show them.
Before I begin anything with anyone I intend to be more then friends with I make sure they are aware that I'm attracted to them.
I said word for word with a girl I'm seeing at the moment after we agreed on a day to meet: "Just so there is no confusion, I'm attracted to you."
I Feel like because you were in a group and only met up individually a couple times, she may of assumed you were only friends and so resisted when you made attempts.
She also could of just been Frigid.
Maybe she was malested as a child and you doing what your doing reminded her.
Try saying this "Hey, the other night when we were on the couch together and I was touching you, why did you tighten up into a defensive ball?"
by by saying that she can't beat around the bush or act aloof and will tell you straight up why she didn't.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.