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    Default I cant tell if im being used or slowly being put into friend zone.

    Sup Fellas,
    So I be dating this girl for a couple months now we fuck maybe like 4 times excellent excellent sex, but everytime I come over she got me doing all this handyman work.... shit which is fine I don't mind, I'm construction worker I'm demonstrating value in a way. every time I get donetho... it's not like I'm expecting it, but I'm not getting the affection or the attention that I feel i deserve. Havent had sex in like 2 weeks now and I know she's a fucking submissive slut, cuz i kind of busted her on Craigslist before we are going out with these submissive adds... She never met any of them just liked the attn she says... Riiiight. Im a dominant man myself so I give her orders to follow, rough sex and sweet afterwards.i make her climax everytime, but for some reason I still can't get that level of affection or attention that I need. FRUSTRATING cuz i could def see myself with her long term... But so do so. E other guys on her FB or texts... Not somuch anymore after i said its me or them fuckboys...
    is she playing me? Is she using me for work? Kindness for weekness shit? should I just kick this chick to the curb

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    Default Re: I cant tell if im being used or slowly being put into friend zone.

    Anyone please dont be affraid to tell me im Ernest P Worrell

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    Default Re: I cant tell if im being used or slowly being put into friend zone.

    It's hard to say, depending on what you mean by "playing me". If you say she didn't have have sex with you for two weeks though and you helped her with handy work jobs, then maybe something is going on. It could also be that she is testing you, by having you do all that handy work and not submitting to having sex with you. If it was me I would just tell her to be honest and to be exclusive. It sounds like that is what you want from her, so being honest and asking her to stop seeing other people is the way to go man. I hope this helps..

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    Default Re: I cant tell if im being used or slowly being put into friend zone.

    Quote Originally Posted by i_am_DeMann View Post
    Sup Fellas,
    So I be dating this girl for a couple months now we fuck maybe like 4 times excellent excellent sex, but everytime I come over she got me doing all this handyman work.... shit which is fine I don't mind, I'm construction worker I'm demonstrating value in a way. every time I get donetho... it's not like I'm expecting it, but I'm not getting the affection or the attention that I feel i deserve. Havent had sex in like 2 weeks now and I know she's a fucking submissive slut, cuz i kind of busted her on Craigslist before we are going out with these submissive adds... She never met any of them just liked the attn she says... Riiiight. Im a dominant man myself so I give her orders to follow, rough sex and sweet afterwards.i make her climax everytime, but for some reason I still can't get that level of affection or attention that I need. FRUSTRATING cuz i could def see myself with her long term... But so do so. E other guys on her FB or texts... Not somuch anymore after i said its me or them fuckboys...
    is she playing me? Is she using me for work? Kindness for weekness shit? should I just kick this chick to the curb
    You can see if she's using you by not doing that stuff. If she keeps talking to you then she wasn't if she doesn't then she is.

    Your frustrated that means you are reactive to her that means you are starting to see her as having higher value than you.

    You NEED nothing from no one your emotions come from within.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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