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    Question Help on dating married workplace woman

    I need some helping ideas with a married girl from my workplace, but a different department.

    I have never thought about dating a married woman, but this happened now and I'm not interested in discussing the subject. I would only add that she comes from a very conservative and controlling family and environment, her husband as perhaps the only man in her life and maybe she fantasizes something else, but as I told, I'm not interested in discussing the married woman question here.

    Sher works there for about 5 years. However no contact of any kind ever happened except crossing each other occasionally in the building and ignoring each other. She's almost never alone, having some girlfriend co-workers with her, like me who usually have a female co-worker with me.

    I think she's gorgeous. I know nothing about her life, but 2 years ago I heard people commenting about her marriage. Some 6 months later when we crossed in a place we were both alone I was surprised with her "Hi" and just had time to reciprocate her another "Hi".

    There were only two more occasion for a "Hi" in the next few months, and some eye contact, but only when it's safe, something that seldom happens. Then she got pregnant, went for a 10-month maternity leave and now returned, 2 months ago. I'm happy that she's as beautiful and her body is as perfect as ever before.

    During her license, I could find her mobile number in the national directory, something she may not be aware of (mine isn't and that's unusual for someone to have the number in the directory).

    She lives not far from the workplace, and I live some 30 miles away in another town. I know where she lives, but don't think it's a good idea to walk in her area.

    There's no place in the workplace where we don't risk being caught. I live alone, so there's no such problem with my place.

    Some weeks ago I crossed her when she was talking to her boss in a hall (the boss standing and her sit, me crossing alone), she was so embarrassed, perhaps fearing I could say some "hello" that she got up a little clumsy and left her water bottle fall to the floor.

    Today we crossed on the building entrance and exchanged our "hi", she smiling very friendly.

    The only way we could meet is in my place or a motel, of course.

    The question is how to have contact with her.

    I think that using her number may make her feel unsafe and she doesn't have my number, which would require an introduction of some texts that might complicate further. Unless there's a safe discreet way to do it.

    That's what I invite you here, some ideas and suggestions on the subject

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    Default Re: Help on dating married workplace woman

    I only read the title.

    DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT !

    Leave the girls you work with alone.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Help on dating married workplace woman

    Quote Originally Posted by kasparonii View Post
    I would only add that she comes from a very conservative and controlling family and environment, her husband as perhaps the only man in her life and maybe she fantasizes something else, but as I told,

    Sher works there for about 5 years.
    Quote Originally Posted by kasparonii View Post

    I know nothing about her life
    Well, even aside from that, you are a complete IDIOT.

    What do you want from this woman?

    Do you, like, have no plan?

    I mean, don't you fucking think? If you are not enjoying this process and coming here for every move, what makes you think you are going to be able to pull any maneuver on your own?

    In all cases, you can't even get her number, now you want to meet at a motel.

    Ok here a straw for you. Do one thing to finalize the whole thing and make you life easy.

    Book a nice hotel room

    Take your business card, on the reverse, write down "Meet me at 8pm on Friday at the Hilton Room #xxx"

    If she comes, there you go.. EASY PEAZY.

    If she doesn't.. well the GREAT, shes not interested and you can MOVE ON

    Shes married, what do you want? Break up their relationship and take care of their kid?


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