Man we have some issues we need to work through with you Bulldog. From this post and the others I have seen of you are in the middle of some serious inner game issues. This is what I am seeing tell me if it sounds right: you got into this to get better with women. You have learned how to approach a woman but you are having problems cultivating attraction. This is frustrating you so you have responded by dumping hundreds if not thousands of dollars into products to try to “learn” how to push past your escalation and attraction issues. However you are still stuck in the same rut not getting anywhere, and not closing the women you want to close. In return you don’t blame yourself you blame the girl. She must be shallow; she must be only after money, or tall guys, or a nice car, or even VIP status with bottles popping when they walk into the room. Truth is that the issue is not with the women it’s with YOU!
The reality of the matter is that your issues are rooting in your inner game. You don’t believe you can so you can’t. I know its simple but it’s the truth. You have been rejected and shot down so many times that you don’t think it will work. So you learn a new bit and you take it into the field and try it, and it fails. Well my question is this: if its failing for you and working for others does it make the problem the material or the presenter. I imagine that your issues are coming from a lack of congruency. Your non verbals are screaming one thing when you verbals are screaming another. Women can see this and in return see that you look fake wanting nothing to do with that. They see that its just a show and that your not worth her time. Christian Hudson talks about this in unbreakable where he talks about cognitive reality. You interpret your environment through value filters. Then these interpretations determine your expression or output into the environment both verbals and non verbals. In other words, your value filter tells you that you are going to fail, so you express to your set that you are going to fail. You are setting yourself up to fail even before you open. Work on this, then work on your body language, then work on your vocal expression. You can get past this.
This isn’t easy to fix, it takes rewiring your brain and relearning habits and beliefs. But you need to know that is creating a huge limiting belief in yourself that is holding you back from the success that you so badly want. STOP blaming them, accept that its something you need to change and I promise that you will find success. I know you don’t agree, we have been through that on another thread, but im going to keep banging my head against a wall until you open yourself up to the idea, and then im going to poor as much into you as I can to help you learn and find success. Reason being is I had the same problem and I have corrected it. Now I am having great success with women and enjoying the life that I wanted. And no im not rich, and I don’t have a fancy car or house, and I am for sure not the best looking guy and oh BTW im only 5’7. Let us help you.