Ive been thinking about this a lot lately, especially after my trip to amsterdam and another failed conversation with my ex. Whatever, bad move to meet her i know, but when u spend 7 hours on a train after being high on shrooms the day before, ur mind makes you think its a good idea.
PUA runs a fine line, if you take it one way you arent going to become happier it is just going to make you: lose respect for women, look like a player (attract the socially unstable girls and go for girls in relationships). I genuinely could sleep with my ex's sister whos in a terrible relationship, shes very attracted to me as has only seen me as alpha. Some things i think are just disgraceful that PUA's do, and i know most would jump to sleep with her (i probably will if im in a mood still at christmas ).
The other problem with finding a girlfriend as a fully fledged PUA is to not see the full qualities of one girl if you are dating 6 or 7 and you kinda get urself in a hole. The time i found my gf, we clicked and spent most days with each other and theres something beautiful about that.
Heres some things i will be focusing on in my self improvement, and what i believe will lead you to a high quality girlfriend rather than animal sex.
- Be a social animal, understand everybody around me and be GENUINELY interested in what people have to say. I will try to be the undisputed AMOG (good thing).
- Be physically fitter than anyone else, the BEST way to add value and to show you are a good provider is to show you are a bread winner, fighting fit.
- Smile, but understand when you are sad and find out the reason why, DO NOT force a fake smile if you can be happy by fixing a problem.
- Constantly have goals and beat them.
Heres some PUA things i wont be focusing on, and what i believe will probably help you pick up girls but just will make it so much harder to meet the special one.
- I will not sarge every second of my life, the right girl wont come and find you, but this doesnt mean u have to be down her throat within 10 minutes of meeting her. High quality conversation should be had.
- Use suggestive mind techniques e.g ross jefferies, to find a true gf you wont find her by shagging her the first night u see her in a club. you will never have respect for her if u manipulated her toooo much (i dont like the word manipulation but i cant think of a better one, you all know what i mean!). She is a fuck gf not a high quality gf.
- Date people with a lt boyfriend, have some self respect dont manipulate her into hating him, its happened to me and it is not nice. If theyre anywhere near ur social circle its not worth the long term effects.
G2g now coz my mates coming round to watch the football (soccer). Be interested to know if anyone agrees or disagrees with me. Im up for a good debate see if u can prove my points wrong. Also i hope this helps anyone in the same boat as me who had a horrible break up and enjoys good company over good sex.