first post here! and i need you help. i've been gaming for a while after being introduced to it by a friend, i've read "the game" and "the mystery method" along with videos that both style and mystery have put out there and i often browse this forum and usually got the answers i needed whenever i got stuck or hit a wall and its always been a great help so i want to say a big thank you to you guys. but now i need your help, ok let me give you the sciffy.
ok so about 2 and half months back im at a club, a gigs going on and in the corner of my eye i see this red vixon with lip piercings, the moment i saw her i knew i needed to have her so got a mate who knew her to bring her over, from here i negged her a few times and started abit of fluffing and by the end of the night got her name and was told to give her a add on facebook, which i did. From here i got her number and within a few days got myself a date with her which ended with a kiss close, to cut a long story short i've been dating her now for about 2 months and we have done everything except full close (not becuase she didn't want to but because everytime we want to her brother is in the next room and we don't exactly want him to hear us), she's a great girl but has had a tough life and been messed about quite abit by boys in the past, she has quite low self-esteem and i have been told by her im alot better looking than alot of her past boyfriends, all sounds good yeah?
...here's the problem, we can go out or go over her's and its all great but then its always me texting her afterwards, and making contact with her (apart from the occasion once or twice). If i leave it a few days then i get a text or something but acting like im not intrested doesn't help me and at one point she went on holidays and i left if 3 days from the day she came back to get in contact, in which time she contacted me and when we did go out and have a great time i was told by her a few days later she was sorry she didn't contact me as soon as she came back because she feared i might have got myself a girlfriend. what i need from you guys is help on how to play it, negging won't work as her self esteem is low but then i don't want to come across as needy and keep texting her, or leave it and have her think i have lostintrest. but i know she likes me and she is soo worth the trouble, so help on how to play this please guys.
sorry if this is in the worng place feel free to move this to the dating forum.