So at college I have a huge social group with a lot of girls and only 5 guys. One of the girls in there I have such a huge crush on. She is really cute but what really makes me attracted to her is her personality. She is kind, caring, fun, and likes nerdy things like video games. She makes even the hottest "normal" woman seem boring. I said I would never fall in love in college but I would make an exception for her. For those familiar with Vin Di Carlo's pandora's box system, she is a textbook example of "the private dancer". This means that sexual Tension or innuendos make her feel uncomfortable, I've seen it myself. It means that she is selective and someone on another forums gave me good advice. I may not even have to be alpha in order to get her. I just need her to feel safe with me and have her trust me. Right now, she definitely thinks of me as a friend. She gave me her number and I've seen her and my social group every day in college so far. She says that I am very polite. I don't know if this means "nice guy" because "nice guys" apologize all the time and do everything they are asked while I let people speak and volunteer to help my friends without overdoing it. She also laughs when I eat all sorts of weird food combos that my friends create for me like carrot cake and ketchup. There are two other guys that might be pursuing her but I think one might have given up while another is never serious but he does use a lot of Kino. It is also hard to get this girl alone. What should I do in this situation? How do I get her to like me? How do I tell her how I feel and how can I transition to getting physical?