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  1. #1
    amino2 Guest

    Default new sticking point

    So i don't know if i can provide enough insight for you guys to help me, but I wanna throw this out there and see if I get anything helpful. So since I began learning pick up I have learned a lot. I learned to work on inner game, which is never ending, I've learned to approach and how to # close. However it seems like I've found my next issue to work on. In a week time span at school, I approched and closed 10 girls. each one we had fun and interesting convo and I # closed everyone ( i did get one fake tho as you guys know, this was bf related tho.) But I now have found that I am having a effin hard a** time taking these numbers and getting further results. 1 girl we did an inst date and that has been the most promising result. But the other ones have been nothing but flackes ( assumably my fault.)

    I believe part of my problem is that I am new to this city and I haven't socially established my self yet. I cant say I have a strong group of guy friends to have parties with n stuff. But otherwise i dont know where else to turn. A cpl girls have been down to hang n ill make plans then when its time they never respond.

    So any help you uys can offer would be great, this is why ive never really ever chased women, cuz the results can b so hard to get. I like to jus sit back and let them make most effort. ( its works enough for me lol)

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    Default Re: new sticking point

    I'm going to give you a quick answer and when I can get infron of a computer and not an iPhone.

    Sounds like you are not time bridging. You seem to get great attraction to get the number , but it fades as soon as you are not in front of them.

    I'll get more in depth later when I get off work.

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    I'd say ur prolly right on with that interpretation tcomea2. U r right I am very good at generating attraction in person but maybe its txt game I needto work on. I'll wait to hear further response from others as well till I make any adjustments lol. the night is still young where I live so ima hit the town ha!

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    Ok so after 12 hours of work I will try to respond to this. If it makes no sence forgive me…

    If you want specific advise on text game talk to crob, he is the local expert on the mater at the moment.

    As far as time bridge I think this is easier now then it was before text was all the rage. You can start to text within moment of meeting someone. You have to be able to keep the attraction going through the words. Remember women don’t respond to logic they respond to emotions. So play with them. Build some Tension. And esculate it. Make her want to see you. Make her want to jump you as soon as she does see you.

    If you getting on the phone with her and making contact that way I have always subscribed to mystery’s method on this. Call them be like “hey I got this song stuck in my head you got to help me out with it … blah blah blah (singin a few lyrics of the popular song of the week)… when you figure out the name of it call me back! ok bye. “ Click, hang up. Every time I get a call back. Then I have her working for me, trying to do things to invest in me. It’s simple, but affective. From there stay fun, the ice is broken and you can be as crazy and fun as you want just keep your frame. A lot of guys go alpha on phone or text and it shows the woman that your not congruent. So she flakes.

    As far as your social situation goes; Relax, you can use that to your advantage. If I remember correctly you are in Chicago right? Just be honest. Tell them you are new to the area and you need her to show you around. Make a day out of it. Day dates are great for first dates cause it takes a lot of stress out of it. Don’t call it a date, tell her you need her to show you xyz type of place and since she represents Chicago well you know shell be a great choice to help you with it. Do it on an off day. Like a Tuesday or something. Take the pressure off and let it happen naturally. Enjoy the experience together, escalate and see what happens next.

    I really think that your biggest problem is still inside your own head. You haven’t been doing this that long and you seem to have made great strides forward. Congrats on that. I wish you continue success. Just remember that we all started with tons of failure. If you get flaked on, break down the experience and see what you could have done better. Learn from it. If you need help call me or shoot me an email ill be glad to help. I also know that Crob would be as well.


    now im gong to bed.

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    Default Re: new sticking point

    k tcomea I appreciate what uve said and alot makes sense. I do have some questions tho. So we have concluded that I must be generating good attraction initially, idk what happens once we separate but i cant seem to always get the opp to keep that goin via txt (most often the case when we meet in very short encounters!)

    Also what do u mean a lot of guys go alpha on the phone or txt and this shows incongruence and causes them to flake?

    Everything else is good stuff i will use what i can. I jus met a good a** wing the other day. he is all natural game so Ima use him as a tool to learn and a friend lol. And thanks for the compliment on recogizing my progress. lets hope I can keep moving forward lol

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    Default Re: new sticking point

    K I knew u was going to miss something. Try adding in some future projection into set. Like mention something about to wanted to go try xzy in such and such day. Tell her she should come along and make soft plans to do it. Then you have it set and have a reason to contact her and reset the plans if needed. Roll play is also a good time bridge tool. If your not doing it add it in to the tool bag.

    It should have said guys go beta on the phone... Typo. Sorry

    Like I said before crob is far better than me with building attraction over the phone and text. Use him for advise on that.

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    amino2 Guest

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    after yesterday i do agree that its prolly inner game that I still need to work on. I had a great opportunity and i talked my self outa it. ( in all fairness it was the frist time id experienced this intensity.) So im walkin up the stairs to jump on a train, as i reach the platform me and this chick link eyes, i walk her way and we r both starin into each others eyes. I flippinin paniced and batted my eyes towrds the train. we caught eyes again once we went to the door. but i made no move. fml. This was kiss opener material if i was at the bar. wow it was exilarating, at least I can do better if that happens again cuz it wont throw me off as much.


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