So I've been in the game for a few years. The first 3-4 short term relationships were when i was young and I pretty much got owned in all of them. Either got friend zoned or girls cheated etc etc. Then last year I met an awesome chick a few months after one of these shitty short term relationships. This girl was perfect for me. Unfortunately, I has gotten so fed up with girls that i was an asshole to her and was seeing other girls when I was with her and ruined it. This was a pretty big turning point. I realised that I dont reallly wanna be an asshole. The problem is I went through a few girls right after her that just didnt compare and I continued just playing the field. I finally met a girl 2 months ago, who I thought was perfect except she's not down for a relationship. I'm 21 now and I've never had a girlfriend even though I've been somewhat succesful on the just playing the game part and hooking up with chicks. Right now after I hadnt talked to the most recent girl in 2 weeks she invited me to this event where she proceeded to hook up with another dude and I had this other chick i knew there (a Stripper) lol so i hooked up with her somewhat in spite of this situation. Im tired of this bullshit and just want something normal. I really like to party I DJ and stuff but I really would like to experience a relationship with a quality girl (hot, sense of humor, smart, not gonna be full of drama, etc.) Anyone got any advice on this matter. I could try to go out of my scene and date a girl who's more straightedge but I dont think it would work out. Any advice appreciated.