I haven't had a girlfriend in about a year and in the meantime I've been just chillin, having fun, and trying to improve myself. During this time I've come to the conclusion that I have confidence issues that hold me back from reeling in high quality girls. I attract them initially and keep them interested for a couple of weeks BUT I can't quite close the deal for some reason Another problem I have is not knowing when a girl is into me. I become CLUELESS in this department when I am in the (talking/getting to know stage) of girls and never am able to tell WHEN or IF I should make a move. I think this could be linked to having low confidence but am not for sure.
I often wait for girls to make moves because I don't know how to read whether or not they are interested in me for sure. I also beat around the bush too much most of the time and keep girls interested for about 2-3 weeks but then they lose interest and it kind of fades because no one ever makes a move
In the past month Ive had 4 girls that I like, text me and show me interest but I have came away with NOTHING. I've been needy in the past so Ive been trying to not be all over them and text them too much and it has worked for about 2 weeks but then it has faded with all 4 of these girls and I have failed to close the deal with any of them.
Any advice on how I can improve on these things would really be appreciated.