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  1. #1
    Ambition Guest

    Default I have a girlfriend and I don't like it

    Hey guys, I haven't posted in a little while, but I could use some advice.

    I used to be the guy who wanted a relationship, and after getting out of one in 2007 I hit a slump. Read The Game and got into PUA in 2009 and ended a 2 year dry spell, and then got a lot better at game and have had an amazing year and a half.

    I met a chick a month ago and I don't know how it happened, but now we're dating. She's cool, a lot smarter than the normal chicks I hook up with, and is definitely girlfriend material. The problem is, since starting the game I really don't think I want to be in a relationship.....eve r. I love being single, have made a great life for myself and until a month ago actually pictured myself being that guy that's always single, can walk into a club at any age and pick up the hottest chick there. My game's improving greatly, and I could definitely make it that far someday.

    Dating this girl, I feel like all of my PUA work has been for nothing. I also really don't like being accountable in a relationship. I can deal with monogamy (though I gotta say sex with the same girl over and over is getting old), but going on dates, taking her to parties, cuddling on the couch every night (which is fucking lame!)....it's getting old very quick.

    Does anyone have any advice? Has anyone else gone through this? Is it ridiculous to think that I can just go pro with pickup and do it for the rest of my life, or should I focus on settling down?

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    Default Re: I have a girlfriend and I don't like it

    If it's not what you want or are ready for, then stop leading her on. If you truly like her more than anyone you have ever been with then you shouldn't be bored already. You should be able to keep it fresh and exciting. Try new things together and new places to have sex. Having a girlfriend shouldn't be a chore.

    To me, it sounds like you are confident that you can go pick up club chicks that are just looking to fark and you aren't done having your fun. It sounds like you are more worried about not finding another girl that is girlfriend material like this one being smarter than the rest. When that isn't true.

    Honestly it sounds a bit like you feel like you need to conquer as many girls as you can which shouldn't be the point of pick up.

    To each his own.

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    Default Re: I have a girlfriend and I don't like it

    ok well honestly u have been in the game about as long as me. but u still need to get thru that phase. u still want to go conquer every chick and keep fucking different girls all the time. it sounds like u like her but ur just not ready for that yet. u still need to get ur fullfilment of being single and getting what u want. trust me after a while of doing mindless sex (even though hanging out with them is always different) u will probably look to settle down and get a girlfriend. but for now u need to break up with her cause ur not ready for this. tell her u care about her but u cant do this right now. shit tell her almost the exact post u put above. she wont hate u, she will actually probably get more attracted which leaves u an option or the future but for now u need to go have fun and be single until u feel like ur ready for a girlfriend
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    Ambition Guest

    Default Re: I have a girlfriend and I don't like it

    Good advice guys, I appreciate it. Ya, I'm thinking my problem is I didn't get the sarging out of my system. I see girls now that I know I can get and just think "well, no, you can't now". I definitely like her, but if I'm not ready it's not fair to me or her. Going to mull it over for a few more days, but breaking up is probably the way to go.

    And ya, I realize the point isn't too go out and fark as many as I can, even though that is always fun to think about. Part of it is me going from not being able to talk to chicks to having no problem talking to and closing chicks, and I feel like I need to live that up and make up for my high school and college years. If that makes me shallow so be it. I will say that I always keep my conquests close after the fact. Most of them become pretty good friends after and when they start dating someone I always give them a ton of support. I like being that friend to them after the fact.

    Thanks for the help guys, and good luck out there!


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