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  1. #21
    Raven Guest

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    Hey guys,

    So, I've got an HB10 gf!!!

    And you guys were right, she would bring it up! It occurred in the strangest manner. It was midnight on the long train ride from the city back to her home in the countryside, and I feel asleep on her (total PUA move right there, gotta love that one). Then I woke up, and she started telling me how cute I was, how fun I was, etc etc and I told her the same stuff, then we started kissing, then I asked her when I could make her mine and she said "NOW!!!" and started making out with me. The rest is history, but when we woke up in the morning we made it "Facebook official," haha. We make each other feel like teenagers. Anyway, it was pretty awesome, and it's nice to know I have the greatest girl ever and I don't have to sarge anymore, or partake in "online game." I really got what I wanted, a really amazing girl who is nuts about me.

    Anyway, here are some things I learned from dating her:

    She told me no guy ever took her on such awesome dates. I took her to a really cool museum, a very unique/romantic restaurant and a comedy club all in the same day for one, and we split the bill 50/50 so it's not like it cost me egregious amounts of cash. She told me most guys would take her out twice and then just try to get her to come over their house. Basically, what I learned from this is if you can give a girl very fun experiences and the promise of more to come, you can get her real easy.

    Have fun on dates - I didn't try to impress her at all and I had a TON of fun on all our dates (although she told me no guy ever did so much to impress her, lol!).

    Well, now I think I might look into Carlos Xuma and Scot McKay's relationship stuff. Ideally I'd love to marry this woman some day. She is the type that has wedding bells at the forefront of her mind already, but I want a full time well paying job, and the ability to buy her a gorgeous ring before I ever move forward on that front.

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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    Hip hip hooray! haha. I may have missed this or forget but refresh my memory raven. Where did you meet her?

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    Raven, I'm really pleased to you man. You're fastly becoming quite the inspirer! haha! An HB10 who has all the right personality ingredient. You are reaping the rewards for your hard work, quite rightly too!

    I hope you have a long and happy with this girl, seriously. I know I'm gonna get there one day! Now I know it, and that's a major thing. I feel more confident everytime I go out these days and it really just improves your whole life.

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    good stuff bro!! it all works its self out at the end doesnt it?!

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    Aye, now it moves to phase 2. I have her to myself, but I can't mess it up, so I only basked in my victory for a few hours. I have to focus and stay alpha, or else I'll lose her, because she likes this Raven, and not my ancient AFC apparition of a man. It's pretty insane how much an HB10 GF can make an HB8 ex jealous btw... Not that I care. When I first started out on my PUA journey, I wanted some revenge, I wanted an HB10 to stick it to my ex, now, I could care less about the ex, what she thinks, and in fact, wanting to minimize the pain I cause in the world, I find myself not even interested in rubbing it in. I just care about my girl, and my goals.

    @InTheMaking - Plenty of Fish. Actually, she would show her mom the messages guys sent her and her mom would go through and pick the guys she recommended. So, I guess I owe her mom for liking my message and my profile, lol. She kind of used her mom as a secretary, that's how much attention she got there. When I was over her house I saw her email open and she had plenty of POF messages... It's rather unbelievable how much messages an HB10 gets.

    @Martano - Thanks! It really was hard work. I went through a lot of sarging, some rejections, some bombing openers/interactions, some psychotic chicks, etc before finding this girl. I'm the same way, I started feeling a little better every time - I just have to keep progressing myself despite being in a relationship, so I'm definitely not done yet with my PUA journey. I think cultivating a successful relationship is part of being a true PUA, if you are the LTR type.

    @jabardu - Aye, it does! Although I wouldn't consider it the end yet. I need to keep this going. This girl I never want to lose, yet the Catch 22 is that if you try too hard or care too much you'll bomb and lose her.

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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    well said my man well said. you can never forget the pua in you or else you end up where we both were!!! i got plenty of faith in you man!

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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    Mind sharing the pof messages you use for openers? seems you were pretty successful

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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    "Thanks learninglegend. Because of you I will be getting my dick sucked everynight for the forseeable future. If I didn't use your material this never would have happened. I will get nudes and post them up thanks man love you"

    Hey no worries man. I live to give. Haha I'm just playing. Remember you don't have to always have your PUA on. Women love it when a man can be vulnerable with them

  9. #29
    Raven Guest

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    @Legend - LOL!!! Hey, I really do deeply appreciate that line. I am all about being smooth and romantic, and that line was really congruent with me - it was a great way to express my desire to be exclusive with her and it really helped make for an unforgetable beginning to what I strongly feel will be an amazing relationship. The more I'm with her the more I can't stop thinking that God gave me the perfect woman for me. Speaking of God, I thank Him as well for His help, even though I have violated His Word so much, but I feel respect for Him is due. I need to honor Him for what He did for me.

    It is true you don't always have to have your PUA on. And sometimes you need to have serious talks, not always avoid potential drama. I had one today and I felt a lot closer to her afterwards. However, she is absolutely ape about me now, and I am so determined to keep it that way. She wants to spend all the time possible with me, but I'm going to keep volunteering, training for fights every day, working hard, doing stuff with church, and running my club on campus. I won't sacrifice anything because I know it's best for her not to have a man she can be with 24/7, but to have a man who succeeds and leads.

    @bardu - I can't forget my PUA senses. In fact, I've found it impossible to stop sarging in a sense. I still automatically talk to and flirt with girls, although I don't Number Close or anything. I believe a true PUA is an alpha male, and that's really my goal - to stay alpha.

    @InTheMaking - Unfortunately, she and I deleted our POF's. I deleted my other dating site accounts too, lol, so I lost my messages, which I wish I copied to share. I wouldn't have minded just putting all the successful ones, particularly the successful formulaic ones, on here, so people could edit them and send them out to girls. I just want guys to win. What I can do though, is share my most successful formula. One key point is to remember to be at least fairly short.

    Here's the outline of a general message I'd send:

    Opener: How is it going (first name, if she mentioned it)?
    Reference to subject.
    About her profile
    How it relates to my interests
    A test

    Here's an example -

    Subject: Mustaches

    How is it going Alisha?

    This has nothing to do with mustaches, I just couldn't think of a subject.

    Anyway, I noticed you love muay thai and comedy clubs, so I HAD to message you - plus you have such a warm smile and I wanted to meet the girl behind it. I like muay thai as well, I just started 7 months ago but I am really into it. As for comedy clubs, *NameOfClub* is my favorite, have you ever been? To see if you're as cool as I think you might be... Imagine we're on a roadtrip!!! Where we headed?

    - (Sign with my first name if she provided hers)

    This type of message was my most successful, and the one I sent my GF was similar.
    Last edited by Raven; 01-18-2011 at 12:34 AM.

  10. #30
    buffalosoldier90 Guest

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    Great advice!


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