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    Default How to ask her to be my gf

    Hey guys,

    So, I met the coolest girl ever. And an HB10 to boot. I met her last wednesday, dated her fri, and wound up in the, erm, bedroom, today. I like this girl so much but I can't see her for a week due to my job . Anyway, how do I ask her to be my gf? Like, I feel like I'm on autopilot now, and I don't want any other girl, not even another hb10. I just want this one. Also, should I wait until she admits she loves me? I don't know how to say it. Call it oneism, it probably is to a degree, but I cannot get her out of my mind, especially after earlier. I can't. I don't know how to describe it. As soon as I met her we meshed, and I've been engaged, but I never felt like this about a woman. I knew she'd be mine the second I saw her. The emotion between us is so strong I think she was crying on my chest while she lay on it. It's nuts, but I am wondering what to do next. Do you guys recommend using a sick day, so it won't be a whole week? What I really need help with though is how to initiate an exclusive relationship...
    Last edited by Raven; 01-04-2011 at 12:02 AM.

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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    The only advice I feel qualified to give you would be. Definitely take a sick day. If you think you can progress in that given day. Surely it would be worth your while!? Although it depends on the type of girl. Do you think she'd miss you even more over a week? Or would she become even a slight bit less interested? Either way one day off sounds like the best thing to do, in order to keep the level of emotion at the peak you've done great to establish!

    p.s. I hope this works for you man!

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    Thanks! I just found out my football game wednesday was cancelled, so maybe Wednesday, or I'll take that sick day on Friday. I am surprised she likes a real poor guy. Her dad made serious cash, her car which she thinks is old and is replacing is better than mine (and she drives a stick.. Awesome.), and her house is pimped with a hot tub, billiards room, etc etc. I share a bedroom with 2 dudes I'm so poor ( I have my own bed, don't get any ideas, lol). Im going to have to show her the hood...

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    Ok, I have a plan. I feel asking her to be my gf would be best after a couple weeks. I want her to wonder and hope for me to ask. I'm going to ask right after it gets physical and in a romantic place or situation, I.e a rooftop in Boston. I'll post the results. Always helps to have a plan. I think I got a bit needy there, I jumped the gun, thankfully I came to so I can go about this in control. This chick throws me off a lot though. I'm always on my toes, nothing goes as intended.

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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    haha thats sounds like a damn good catch. u were describing materialistic there for a second but raven i know you. ur inner game is pretty strong and im sure this girl is damn good. its just like the girl im gaming now. my eye is off every other girl and on her. of course i still game the other girls but she is in the back of my mind. always keeps me on my toes, is quicker on her feet than i am, gives shit and takes it, goes with the random funny shit i do. bro i feel ya. just stay calm and dont forget. she likes the alpha you that u truly are, not the old AFC you. so always make sure you think about it with a PUA mind to know if your being beta or alpha. i made that mistake. this chick i havent made those mistakes. and it working out good. a little complicated but the attraction is there and i can tell she wants nothing more than to date me and she is waiting for it.

    well good luck bro. i know this will probably turn out good.
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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    Dude... do not ask her to be your girlfriend. Maybe after a few months you can talk about seeing each other exclusively or agree to only sleep with each other... but asking her to be your GF seems super needy at this point.

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    Thanks a lot! I will definitely take that advice to heart. I just mentioned the material because it illustrates that cash clearly isn't everything like too many men assume. I could hardly be more economically opposite. A poor guy can get a ritzy HB10, because a quality woman does not look for cash, but a direction in life. She knows I'm going somewhere and that's enough fir her. It is very easy to please her too. I hung out with her at the mall and didn't pay for anything she got, not even food, an after I left her house she was texting me 40 mins after worryin if I got home safe and telling me she had a great time. You don't need money to impress if you are fun to be with and turn her on.

    Good to hear you're finding a great girl too. She sounds similar to mine in some ways, it's surprising how some girls are good enough to keep alpha men on their toes. I still game other girls as well, because it's a weird automatic reaction for me to game HB's. I can't stop the sarge! I really like this girl, but I still can't stop, lol. My grandpa died a few weeks ago, and he was amazing with women even as a real old guy. He basically charmed women until he died, he even gamed his 20 something nurses. But, he was always faithful to his wife and never cheated. It goes to show a naturally attractive man will always "sarge," but if he is honorable, he will still be faithful to his true woman.

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    [It goes to show a naturally attractive man will always "sarge," but if he is honorable, he will still be faithful to his true woman.]

    One of the keys to keeping the attraction up in a relationship is to stay active and continue to be your best self, which includes all aspects of what you were doing while single, including flirting to a point with other women.

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    Alright, I will wait longer, Bill. The more I think about it, the needier it seems to ask her soon. Plus, I know I don't have to worry about any other men. My concern is also if she asks me, I know she may do that. She keeps texting me and treating me like a bf. Its a bit stage 5 clinger, but I don't mind it coming from her

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    Default Re: How to ask her to be my gf

    Enjoy it man... but don't rush it. Besides being single is great. Again, the more she has to chase you (to become her BF) the more she will value you as her BF once she has you.

    I've seen attraction die so many times for guys when they rush to become the BF. The girl no longer has a challenge and she naturally becomes less interested.

    Good luck man.


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