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  1. #11
    Raven Guest

    Default Re: Caught completely off guard, regaining attraction

    I think you have kind of already slid into the LJBF zone. Besides, if a girl strung me along like this, I would have dropped her right at the "I kissed another guy" and moved on. I'd give her a short, well-reasoned, politely toned piece of my mind so she knows that those feelings of guilt she has she should definitely feel, and I would leave and go date someone else despite any apologies.

    That said, I kind of accidentally dated (sounds weird, but basically, we were forced to hang out, and I seemed to slide into my old self and it went like a date) another really hot girl, but despite what I did I like my GF and have no intention of cheating on her, I just got a bit lost in the moment because I was around an HB10 who likes me a lot (she texts me almost as much as my GF sometimes) who I once had very strong feelings for, and I had to be with for 5+ hours. This girl you may have also just got lost in a moment, she has NOT seen you much, so any connection she has is minimal, and what you build is fading away as she leaves for so long. I worry about what I'll do when I'll be separated from my GF for 10 days with this other woman in a foreign country, but I know I won't cheat because I love my GF and there's a strong connection. If you feel that this girl just hasn't had the chance to build a strong connection with you, you might want to try Freezing Her Out and continue to persue her. But, I never really bothered with love triangles. They're just such a waste of time. The only love triangle I want be in is one involving me and two girls vying for me - otherwise I want nothing to do with them.
    Last edited by Raven; 01-22-2011 at 11:52 AM.

  2. #12
    Shinra Guest

    Default Re: Caught completely off guard, regaining attraction

    I definitely did not made her feel guilty at that time, I was actually really understanding of her situation; not because I was like trying to be nice or anything, I did the mistake of actually reasoning the stuff out loud as I would have in my mind.
    I understand I should have done that afterwards, though.

    Update of the Freeze Out: though three days haven't yet passed, I was contacted by her another time on the Facebook chat tonight. She contacted me noting how she saw me more often on the Facebook chat (she's correct, I did never actually use that feature, and always used to be offline — so it's like a bait) saying something funny about her mispelling of a word.
    I wasn't in front of the computer though, so I saw the message only one hour later; she was still online, but I decided to follow learninglegend's advice and not to answer anyway.

    Thoughts on that second contact? Or criticism?

    神羅

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    Default Re: Caught completely off guard, regaining attraction

    Excellent, you didn't respond. However if it was me I would have deleted/blocked her account.

    Is it three days yet? What has been happening?

  4. #14
    Shinra Guest

    Default Re: Caught completely off guard, regaining attraction

    Aside from her contacting me on Sarurday evening, no other move has been made from her yet.

  5. #15
    Shinra Guest

    Default Re: Caught completely off guard, regaining attraction

    Edit:

    I did call her. Silly, I don't know. Listen up.
    I was kinda chilled out, created a tight time constraint.
    She has invited me out casually; she said: "We are going out on Friday, since there are a lot of birthdays going on this week, and we're going to party all together." She put this out also because there's one of those birthday which is a common friend one; though I don't know any other one.
    I said stuff like: "Oh, I'm kinda busy with stuff going on…" and told her about a lots of stuff I genuinely have going on, then I told her about this theatre show I'm going on Friday at 21.00 and she said: "Oh, but nobody's going to show up before 23.00 anyway I guess; so you could make it in time!", and I was like: "Ah, ok. Then I'll see how things turn out in the evening I guess."
    Honestly, I wanted to say: "Then you can come to the theatre and next we can go there together", but I refrained from it. Don't know if I did it good, because I had the impression I could go for it, but wanted to look chilled out and uninterested enough.

    Feedback? Was it good or bad I called her? Was it good or bad not to tell her? What should I do on Friday? Go there even though it's an event with a lot of other people? And then what to do there? Treat it as if it were a set? Isolate her?
    It's going to be one big set though, kinda though.
    I really would appreciate advice.

    神羅

    P.S. Oh, she said before closing the phone: "I'm glad you called."

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    Default Re: Caught completely off guard, regaining attraction

    go to the party man! think of it this way. you will be out, you can sarge girls, and maybe Isolate her and try running game.

    if you go out, and shes not really into you. move on and start picking up on other girls. she will realize that you dont play games and she needs to try to get your attention and work for you. if she doesnt do that you will have some new numbers to call/text and do your thing with them. not to mention if you have a mutual friend at the party i'm sure you wouldnt mind saying happy bday to him/her.

    the phone call seemed fine to me, i mean you have things to do. but she did sound like she wanted you to go when she told you it starts after the show your going to. so once again i say go to the party, if anything build the attraction back up. and if not you leave with more practice and hopefully some hb10s numbers!
    Last edited by jbardu87; 01-27-2011 at 11:17 AM.


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