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    Unhappy Why is she doing this to me?

    I fell in love wit a friend of mine! There's a villain in every love story! We had a guy friend in common who, in this very story is the villain! It was hard for me to see him flirting wit the girl I really loved. I know I shouldn't have felt this way! But I knew nothing about PUA :S However I recently asked her out and got rejected! I told her that I loved her and that It killed me when 'The guy' used to flirt wit her. I was really depressed after the rejection. She actually knew what I wud go through! But I was trying to be as normal as before! Meanwhile, I deactivated my FB for two days. Before she rejected me, she was normally posting comments in his status messages, just like a friend. But I don't know what happened to her so suddenly! When I re-activated my account. I checked her wall to see her recent activities. I was pissed off seeing that she wrote too many flirty comments on 'the guy's' wall, status msgs etc. It's pretty clear to me that she was intentionally doing this as she already knew the fact that I never liked their friendship! Why would she do that? Is it because she wants me to be desperate about the rejection and be chasing her for a long time (even though she wud never go out wit me!) Or she just hates me. She wants me to be depressed all the times. Or that she likes me too, But at first she had to say 'No!' for the sake of her Girlish Ego (!!!) n now she wants me to ask her out again. So she can say 'Yes!' Or that she, just out of curiosity, is trying to know how much desperate I can be! What should I do now??!! Please help!!!!! I'm being normal, like nothing happened! n I got over the rejection sooner than she cud ever imagine!
    The GAME is ON!!!

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    it sounds to me like you arent over the rejection. as for the part where you told her that you love her when you asked her out, thats a huge mistake! you need to build attraction with this girl before you convey your true feelings. women are like cats - if you try to smother them and play with them before they come to you, they run away. but if you make yourself look fun and unavailable (like a string) even if they want you a little bit - they will chase when you start pulling away. it's one of the hardest things to do (act like you dont care about a girl when you truly do) - but if you can, you will make her want you even more. they want what they cant have... so make yourself unavailable, not 100%, but give her a little space for now. revisit with new approach in a few weeks. build attraction, and for god sakes, stay off of her FB!!

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    She doesn't really know that I'm not completely over the rejection. As u said, I'll make myself unavailable for a while. In the mean time, I'll try to be her Mr. Perfect! So that she wants me back again. Once I'm done wit the 'Attraction Building' process I'll ask her out again. Bt in a more strategic way! Thanx
    The GAME is ON!!!

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    What'd I tell ya, Man_In_black? :-( You wouldn't take my advice. But I don't fault you for it. You're in pain. I've been there before.

    She is NOT doing anything to intentionally hurt you. She is doing the things she does because she likes the other guy.

    Be YOUR Mr. Perfect. And ask OTHER girls out.

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    ya - move on man

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    Quote Originally Posted by JonTylerDiPrince View Post
    What'd I tell ya, Man_In_black? :-( You wouldn't take my advice.
    I've always taken all ur advices bro.
    Quote Originally Posted by JonTylerDiPrince View Post
    She is doing the things she does because she likes the other guy.
    I'd beat the HELL outta him!!! Not because she loves him! Because he knew I was an AFC, yet he played the GAME just for fun! Just waiting for the right time! That mother****er will definitely regret!
    Quote Originally Posted by buffalosoldier90 View Post
    ya - move on man
    I'll definitely try to move on! It still hurts only if u know I mean.

    Thanks for ur support.
    The GAME is ON!!!

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    we know what you mean, man. just make yourself happy man. nobody else will do it for you

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Man_In_Black View Post
    Because he knew I was an AFC, yet he played the GAME just for fun!
    Have you ever read the story about The Frog and the Scorpion? He didn't do it because he knew you were an AFC. He did it because PUAs are scorpions. Look up and read the story.

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    Hmmm
    We've all been down this road before...
    It one of the hardest moments in our lives...

    Moving on... Don't be SAD about it, in fact be open about it...
    Let the world know, in a sense that she know you want more than just friendship, but you no dog... You not second best...

    My tip, start socializing with other girls, let her see you with them, don't be cold towards her, but at the same time don't pamper your neediness for her love, she whats a drink, point her to the bar, move around, come over be like whats been said been said, but you have options, always leave her when things start to get interesting, leave her wanting more of you, make jokes get her laughing, tease a bit, once you get to the point where she's really starting to enjoy herself, grab her arm, tell her wait her, "I think I see someone I know, don't move... " go chill with the girls, later on come back.. "Sorry forgot all about you... " Once she becomes playful , " hey don't touch... you have to get me drunk 1st " look at her with confidence, make fake passes at her, like make like you heading to greet her, spot someone in the crowd and go right pass go chill with them... show your independence Most of all see OTHER GIRLS dude... when she texts you take about 15/35 min to text back, flake at few times at the last minute.... Call her say sorry, then pretend like you got another girl on the line calling you, you have to go... But most of all do it for yourself, you deserve happiness man, you deserve the best... the other guy, you should thank him ... because PAYBACK going to be a bitch... You a NEW MAN on MISSION .... ( this is my opinion )

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    Default Re: Why is she doing this to me?

    why would you want to beat the kid up? sounds lame to me, ive had a gf of 5yrs get taken away by a pua and i feel no need to hurt him. i played the game but he played it harder. respect where respects due. the only thing that you can do to really punish him is step up your game, reframe and take what you want.


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