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Unread 03-13-2011, 02:45 PM
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Quick read:

Been dating this girl for a long while now but I ended things with her today, on a bad terms might I add.

The thing is that I want a relationship with this girl, but she wants to remain single. Thats the problem however, she keeps contradicting herself: she doesn't want a relationship but then again she doesn't want to lose me. She says that she changes in a relationship and wants to be free (single). She wants to enjoy single life I guess, but again, she doesn't want to lose me.

At one time she did want a relationship but was afraid to tell me. When I then asked her if she wanted to try she "magically" changed her mind and said that she doesn't need a boyfriend.

Eventually I got so sick of this business that I told her its over, and we ended up fighting. The sucky thing is that shes in my group of friends so I see her every weekend, and I can't exactly change groups. (If anything she should go). I told her that I'm moving on.

Any advice on how to get her to come run after me?



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Unread 03-13-2011, 10:16 PM
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Your position isn't well-charted territory. WOuld be interested to know if Bill's program helps you.


 
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Which program exactly?


 
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Default Re: Getting in her pants....again

maybe it isn't available yet? It's not in the reviews or vault section of this site. He's talked about it in the forums. Thought it was titled "Get her Back" or something.


 
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Default Re: Getting in her pants....again

Can't seem to find it.

Anyway anyone can offer me some advice on what to do? She just sent me an email saying that she still wants to be friends even though I want things to stop between us. If we weren't friends anymore she said she saw no point of staying in this group of friends. Should I accept her back right away?


 
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It is called the "Get Her Back Formula" and it isn't apparently released yet. Contact the owner of these boards (Bill Preston) and ask him about it.

If you want things to stop. stop. don't play games with yourself for her sake.

You need to end it on neutral terms and sever all contact with her. Which means making amends for however you may have handled the situation poorly. If you can patch the "bad terms" up without apologizing, and show you are the better person by handling the situation maturely, you'll be better off.

Don't cave and start saying that "you really don't want this to end," whining that you REALLY want a relationship. A women has to FEEL wanting different things. It doesn't work with logic (i.e. you can't rely on persuasion and a sound argument to get someone to love you back).

Then send her on her way. You can't forbid her from being friends with your friends. It is everyone's right to socialize how they want. But you can suggest to her and to your friends that having her around is going to make things difficult for you both.


 
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To be honest I don't want things to stop. Yea feelings are irrational I know that, but if there is some way that I could manipulate her feelings to make her WANT a relationship that would be grand.

I'm not needy or anything, I mean, I can certainly live without her and she has no control over my happiness....but I want to bed her atleast once


 
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then you sound like you're in perfect position to do what I just told you to do (i.e. take risks by pushing her out, and deal with the consequences if she doesn't come back).


 
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Its a plan then. Thanks for the help man, really appreciate it


 
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Default Re: Getting in her pants....again

id like to know the follow up to this story....

however ive found , that unless the "attraction" phase is still there you wont get in her pants again. Girls arent like us Guys when it comes to sex , so in most cases they are not attracted to you anymore tends your problem, they wanna break up. Sometimes in rare cases do exs continue to bed you until they find another interest for your place.


Its tough to sollow , but its the truth. But usually im done with them completly anyway too so i dont have to look weaker by keep calling or texting if i still want them.


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