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    If any of you people out there read my thread on bitch shields, think of this as...the sequel. I haven't approached this girl or talked to her at all in the past month or so, other than facebook. I remember talking with my friend today, and we left our bags to go do something, I forgot what it was, while telling this other girl, who was talking to my target to watch our stuff, and that we would be back. Me and my friend come back, and my friend goes to get something to drink, no idea what he was doing. My target then leaves leaving her friend that she was talking to. Probably 2 minutes after my target leaves her friend (HB 8 if anyone would like to know) asks me if I had a girlfriend. I replied with a no, and she then goes on to quoting me on something I said 2 weeks prior about me going to the mall with my gf (probably some pre-selection routine I used). I then said that was my EX gf. She then asked if I was sure....(well I admit that was kind of stupid). Point is...this was pretty weird behavior, at least in my eyes it was. I want to make this girl my gf (the target not the HB 8), and I'm wondering if her friend was trying to tell me something...or maybe she was just very curious and had a very good memory, I have no idea. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: Best Friends

    most of the time, girls wingman (wingwoman) each other better than guys do, they have this connection with each other, they naturally run tests for each other... the friend in this case was pretty much confirming your status according to the last update she got from you.

    It is clear in my opinion, the target is indeed interested, but shy and not sure if she wants to risk it all, so her friend did the dirty work... Girls aren't used to opening up, so they do these little things to weird us out, but usually it's a good thing!

    Now i sense, she will be more proactive and things should escalate.

    now you are probably going to ask me, what should I do next? you should definately call her and thank her for looking after your stuff and that you wish you could spend sometime with her at a mall or something casual. Make a joke, like I need to go on a spending spree, I hope you are used to carrying bags, because I may need some help. At least you make it more upbeat and light hearted. Once that feels alright, then perhaps extend to dinner, or set a different outting to do something else.

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    Thanks, I kinda figured, because I had the same exact thing happen to me years before, her best friend asked me if I liked so and so (junior high...don't judge), and I said no.....then I blew my first chance at getting a gf. So capitalize on this? The thing I'm afraid of doing, is showing too much interest, as I haven't fully developed the Mindset of abundance yet...Thanks for the speedy response by the way!

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    Default Re: Best Friends

    well how we are perceived is how we perform certain things, if you are too nice and put her on a pedestal and bow to her, yeah you are a creep, but if all is weel and you're playful, the Kino is there and interactions is well.. you have nothing to worry about.

    Most of the times, us, GUYS tend to overthink a action and in return we either over do it or under do it and point being, it is not what we really wanted to do.

    Be yourself, let loose and have fun. Good things happen when we don't sweat it too much ....

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    Yeah, that should just about do it, I'll start coming out of my comfort zone, and start making doing more riskier stuff, but with the Mindset of having fun, and not caring (but not reckless). Thanks!


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