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    reallyreallycool is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Talking How to make her my friends with benefits?

    Hey guys,

    I just signed up just to ask about this.

    I got this friend. We've known each other since college (we both recently graduated). Throughout college she dated a guy that was a good friend of mine. For a short time I dated a friend of hers in college. We were pretty good friends back then, hanging out with the same groups of people and each other.

    She just broke up with her long term boyfriend a couple months ago because he's moving out-of-state. It wasn't going to work anyway.

    Since then we've been hanging out off-and-on on the weekends. We're going to her company party/social dance soon too. On multiple occasions people asked if she's my girlfriend and I say no.

    But what can I do to move beyond friendship?

    I don't think we'd be a great long-term couple and I've said as much. It'd just be a local maximum, when I know there's better matches out there for both of us. She's not really looking for a boyfriend, anyhow.

    But I really think we could be more than just friends and we'd enjoy it.

    How have people done this in the past?

    Do you guys have case studies I can read about?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: How to make her my friends with benefits?

    heres one thing and it applies to any committed person, lesbian, married, whatever... because they always let it sit in the back of their heads:

    I'm 100% sure i want this, but knowing life... whatever happens, happens.

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    Default Re: How to make her my friends with benefits?

    Sorry but i do not agree with the post above.
    If you want something to happen you gotta make it happen. Things don't magically fall in place usually.

    If you want things to move into the ftf world just make moves on her. Touch her more. Tease her. Flirt with her. Entice her. Once you get to the make out phase, just f*ck her. Don't talk about it again but continue to invite her over to do it again. If she asks about your current status with her, tell her you just want to have fun. Be honest, she sounds like a friend anyways.
    Goodluck.

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    Default Re: How to make her my friends with benefits?

    you posted awhile ago, but i'll respond in case someone's in a similiar situation.

    with this one... seeing that you know her so well and she's been a freind's gf, and you're going to her company party... all you do is kiss her.

    when the 2 of you are alone. you look at her, smile/smirk. and kiss her.

    then you break off the kiss first and say, "Hmph, okay..... i always wanted to see how that would feel. let's try that again later, maybe."

    and then you ask her some mundane question like, "so what's the deal with X at your party?"

    when you want to kiss her again, if she doesn't kiss you before you wnat to again, since she might since you opened the flood gates and closed them right away, you just lean in a little and say, let's try that again.

    this style has worked for me quite a few times. tell me how it goes.


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