So I'm 23 and I've never had a real girlfriend. Sure I've had "girlfriends" in highschool, college, etc but nothing that was real. Right now I really just want a girlfriend that I can spend time with, talk to, be with intimately, etc etc. But I feel like I have a few problems before I can get a girlfriend...
I'm overweight, awkward around girls, and pretty much just considered unattractive (or so I've been told). I have a hard time looking in the mirror sometimes, and I'm just sick of it. I'm going to hit the gym this summer and not only work on my physical image, but also my mental image.
Another one of my problems I have right now though, is that my current focus in life right now is my academics. I'm very focussed on getting into med school, so a LOT of my time is spent at home or in the library studying, working on projects and whatnot, so I don't really have time to go out to bars/clubs late at night, or pretty much have any real social life other than seeing my friends every once in a while on weekends. Not only that, but I still don't have a car, so getting around is pretty hard for me as well. Not to mention that public transit isn't exactly the most attractive thing for a woman to see.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I've spent countless nights upset over the fact that I just can't seem to find someone to be with. I don't consider myself to be a bad person, and yet I know these incredibly rude and sexist douchebags who get these incredibly attractive women so easily.
What do I do? Any advice is much appreciated, thanks.