This is gonna be long but please bear with me. I need some advice. I'm 22 years old, and I would say pretty attractive, I get quite a few ioi's, but I've never had a real gf.
So this girl that I went to middle school with messaged me randomly one day on facebook. After going back and forth with messages she gives me her number, I didn't even ask for it. We have been in constant contact for 3 weeks now through text, having some real good conversations, sex being brought up constantly from both myself and her, with photos sent from both her and myself.
One week after initally getting her number she went out to a bar, at around 1 am I began getting texts from her saying she wanted me, she wanted me to snatch her up, things like that, but when I showed up to the place they were getting ready to close so they didn't let me in. I began calling her but her friend took her phone and didn't let me see her.
Fast forward to the next weekend, I invited her out to a club but her friend (the same one that took the phone away) wanted to go somewhere else, the whole night she's texting me how the place she's at sucks and tells me she's gonna try and meet me as soon as she can get her friend out. At around 3 she shows up to the club but by that time I'm already drunk and nothing really happens because her friend wants to leave. She told me I could stop by her house once she drops her friend off but I couldn't because I had to go to work in a few hours.
Then this weekend happens, the whole week she's telling me how she's excited to finally be able to meet up with me and at around 10pm the night we're gonna go out she randomly texts me that she's wearing a cheetah print g-string. I'm thinking it's gonna be on tonight. The plan was that I was gonna meet her at a club, but while I'm on my way, 2 hours after the g-string text, she texts me saying she has a 19 year old in the group and they didn't let him in so they're gonna try somewhere else, so I text her back telling to let me know where she's going so that I don't end up driving around aimlessly, her response never came, I called her several times and texted her and never heard from her. After about an hour of driving around waiting to hear from her, I leave her a voicemail saying that what happened was pretty f**ked up and whatever I'm going home. The next day comes and I text her a few times asking what happened the night before and nothing, and here I stand today, still in the dark, having heard nothing from her. She was online on facebook, so I sent her a message on the chat asking her what happened that she's ignoring me and she didn't right back, although she was online since she was able to comment on a reply someone put on a status update she had put.
I really like this girl and I'm really confused and am not sure what to do. It doesn't make sense that she would flake that way. If any of you have any advice, it would really help as I'm going through a tough time here.