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    Unhappy Worst Flake Ever?

    This is gonna be long but please bear with me. I need some advice. I'm 22 years old, and I would say pretty attractive, I get quite a few ioi's, but I've never had a real gf.

    So this girl that I went to middle school with messaged me randomly one day on facebook. After going back and forth with messages she gives me her number, I didn't even ask for it. We have been in constant contact for 3 weeks now through text, having some real good conversations, sex being brought up constantly from both myself and her, with photos sent from both her and myself.

    One week after initally getting her number she went out to a bar, at around 1 am I began getting texts from her saying she wanted me, she wanted me to snatch her up, things like that, but when I showed up to the place they were getting ready to close so they didn't let me in. I began calling her but her friend took her phone and didn't let me see her.

    Fast forward to the next weekend, I invited her out to a club but her friend (the same one that took the phone away) wanted to go somewhere else, the whole night she's texting me how the place she's at sucks and tells me she's gonna try and meet me as soon as she can get her friend out. At around 3 she shows up to the club but by that time I'm already drunk and nothing really happens because her friend wants to leave. She told me I could stop by her house once she drops her friend off but I couldn't because I had to go to work in a few hours.

    Then this weekend happens, the whole week she's telling me how she's excited to finally be able to meet up with me and at around 10pm the night we're gonna go out she randomly texts me that she's wearing a cheetah print g-string. I'm thinking it's gonna be on tonight. The plan was that I was gonna meet her at a club, but while I'm on my way, 2 hours after the g-string text, she texts me saying she has a 19 year old in the group and they didn't let him in so they're gonna try somewhere else, so I text her back telling to let me know where she's going so that I don't end up driving around aimlessly, her response never came, I called her several times and texted her and never heard from her. After about an hour of driving around waiting to hear from her, I leave her a voicemail saying that what happened was pretty f**ked up and whatever I'm going home. The next day comes and I text her a few times asking what happened the night before and nothing, and here I stand today, still in the dark, having heard nothing from her. She was online on facebook, so I sent her a message on the chat asking her what happened that she's ignoring me and she didn't right back, although she was online since she was able to comment on a reply someone put on a status update she had put.

    I really like this girl and I'm really confused and am not sure what to do. It doesn't make sense that she would flake that way. If any of you have any advice, it would really help as I'm going through a tough time here.
    Last edited by Charrua89; 07-04-2011 at 03:36 PM.

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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    Well you sort of killed it now man. You contacted her through 3 different forms of communication and she ignored you on all 3. You also texted and called numerous times in a very short period of time. In the future only text her once and wait for a response. If she doesn't call or text start a Freeze Out then and there.

    I am not trying to be a jerk, but this situation made you look needy to her and it will def. drop a girls interest level significantly. I would do a freeze out on her now. That is your ONLY chance. Completely stop texting her or calling her AT ALL. If she doesn't try to contact you she has lost all interest. If she is still into you, she will contact you and it will help raise her interest again because she will wonder why you are giving her no attention. She will wonder if you found another girl to flirt with, wonder why you aren't chasing her and it will help you be in control of the situation.

    Also avoid oneitis. Talking to numerous girls at one time while you are single will help your chances with all of them. Especially if they know you are flirting with numerous girls. It will be a dhv and shows her you are a challenge.

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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    i agree with Inthetropics. you completely proved you are a little needy, get pissed off quickly and then will blow her up until she contacts you. It would have been best to not show her your pissed off. It would have been better to be like "ok. well i have been out in my car too long. im heading home. if your down to see me you can bring that cheetah print gstring ass over to my house :P"

    the freezeout will work more than likely. just cut off all strings on communication for like 1-2 weeks and then reinitiate thru text and come back in and reform your frame to fun playful and get her chasing you. you kept dropping things to see her. make her do the same. if you "wants" you make her drop her stupid ass friend to come see you.
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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    I agree with both of these guys. When she does text you, make sure you wait an hour or 2 before you reply. I personally would wait half the day. Then reply with a short response. Almost always works. I have to non stop do that to this one chick so I get laid by her once a week. If I get to interested I don't get laid. its kinda funny. GL

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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    Hey thanks guys for the advice. I'm gonna go ahead and do what you all said and just freeze her out, whatever happens, happens.

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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    Make her friend, the one who keeps cockbolocking you, your friend.

    ETA: Not even close to the "worst flake ever".
    Last edited by nik; 07-06-2011 at 08:32 PM. Reason: See ETA
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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    Ok so about a week has passed and I haven't heard anything from her. I've definitely moved on but I'm thinking about maybe sending her a text to try to open her again in about a week or so, how do you think I should go about doing this?

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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    Quote Originally Posted by Charrua89 View Post
    Ok so about a week has passed and I haven't heard anything from her. I've definitely moved on but I'm thinking about maybe sending her a text to try to open her again in about a week or so, how do you think I should go about doing this?
    Freeze her out, wait for a few weeks or maybe another month to talk to her and game other women.. Or you could just move on.

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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    Well just to update, I ended up seeing her from far at a club this past weekend making out eith another guy. When I first saw her I ended up turning around, trying to avoid her (I know, i know real AFC) but then I decided to try and find her again and confront her but she was gone. Anyway I was gonna tell her

    "really you left me for that..(than doing a fake throwing up face) u disgust me."

    Because in all seriousness, I wouldn't consider myself a model but Im pretty decent looking and the guy she was with had the face of a horse.

    Anyway I'm thinking of maybe sending her something on fb to tell her off but I'm not really sure if I should or what I should say.

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    Default Re: Worst Flake Ever?

    WHAT?!? Its good you didn't go "tell her off" at the club. That would have showed you were not worth her time and only solidified her position on you.

    Also. Don't send her a hate message. What are you thinking? It will show that she still has you on lockdown and she will just think you are an AFC loser.

    You have to be bigger than that man. Go find some other girls to occupy your time, and get off this oneitis junk. You need to be talking to numerous girls at once, it will only help you out and you will realize that tons of girls are out there.


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