I know this girl I met twice and she responds well to my teasing and picking on her. I want to get her more comfortable with me so that I can move into the next phase. Now, she seems from some last conversations that she is not really interested in a short term thing (she has said things like "women are supposed to get settled because there is so much pressure"; "cheeky guys dont last long", she said that when I was being a cheeky and teasing her; to which I said that its not true and that I myself am playful and cheeky but also serious with the right girl) . I want to become that guy that will last long but not by showing her I am also a good gentleman this soon in the game. How to proceed here ? We meet at a salsa dancing place and since I am a good dancer she loves to dance with me.