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    toth is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do I get a girl to be my girlfriend

    There is this girl that I have liked for two going on three years, we are very good friends and we talk and hang out often. We watch a lot of movies together either at her place or mine and I need to know what I need to do to get her to become my girlfriend.

    I'm very new to the whole picking up girls thing and I've told her I've liked her as more than just a friend, but she mostly avoids the topic. Now that school is back in she says she's really busy with sports and doesn't think it would be fair to me if we started getting more serious. I've told her I could work with the problem of time commitment and it didn't bother me.

    Basically I really need to know what to do here. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: How do I get a girl to be my girlfriend

    I was in the same position as you a few years back, and I would love to say great things about your situations, but simply nothing I have to say is what you want to hear....

    You have been dropped into a siblingship, where she sees you as a brother.. not just a close friend, just too comfortable with you. Girls would NEVER want to risk that feeling/connection they have with a guy and they would always avoid to say no to you....

    what can you do to potentially avert this? I would say, stop talking to her for 3 weeks, then start again but this time by being more fun... movie at your house and maybe try to touch her, make kiss advances. Take her out to dinner, and tell her how it's a nice feeling to be with her and such ... be outgoing and more relaxed.. change the nature of your "relaitonship" by the things you guys do together.... think about what you would do with a normal guy friend and if those arethings you are doing with her.. maybe stop it and try something else....

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    toth is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How do I get a girl to be my girlfriend

    That is some great advice and I totally get the whole sibling thing. The thing is before summer started she said yes but I was really drunk when I asked her and never really made a move. She has told me before that she likes me though, and then whole thing about time commitment and such.

    Does she saying she does have feelings for me mean anything different?

    Also I do get close to her and kinda grab her and tickle her all the time, shes pretty comfortable with that as far as I can tell.

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    Default Re: How do I get a girl to be my girlfriend

    i had the exact same situation happen to me in high school. i liked her almost all the way from grade 9-12, i was HUGE AFC. anyways i didnt really make my move until grade 12 with 0 success because of already mentioned reasons. anyways we sort of stopped talking to each other for like months. after a while we became friends again, i was over her. ive hooked up with her while drunk a couple of times. now im trying to make her friends with benefits, no results yet lol. the story is a little more complex, weve had a lot of drama (who doesnt in high school? lol) but thats the jist of it.

    so result of the story, i dont think its possible, but best of luck. gotta freeze her out. i think 3 weeks isnt long enough, should be longer than that. when you go out, make advances and such, test waters. thats my advice, best of luck man.

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    Default Re: How do I get a girl to be my girlfriend

    Brada let me break it down to you ,there are two guys ,guy A ,and guy B both in the same situation ,the want to turn friends into lovers/gf ,wat eva they wana do . Guy A ,still does the same activities ,he still spends a lot of time with the gal ,he still acts the same ,cant say no to her requests ,then there is guy B ,he changes ,the activities done ,he starts spending little time with her ,acts differently =starts building Tension ,starts so say no to her requests ,eg)lets hang out ,watch a movies he starts flirt in with her . Assessing the situation who do u think will have a better change when trying to lay / ask her to be his gf ,its obvious it will be guy B ,because the first guy ,when he makes his advances the gal will feel the same as she would to a sibling ,as you wer advised earlier ,but because the 2nd guy did all that she will feel attraction nd tension towards him all he has to do is have timing and play his cards right

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    Default Re: How do I get a girl to be my girlfriend

    This is nuts.. I will start saying no to her requests, freezing her will suck but I think that's what I will start to have to do.

    Thanks for all the advice


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