Re: Can I get the girl I have Onitis for?
This is a curious one mate. You always find that girl and think "Do I really have to try the game on this one, and see if it works?"
And in this case, you just don't want to crash and burn because hey she's the one you want. It is truly difficult. And they say in the game that you should forget about that girl and go for others, but man I feel your frustration. It just not is that simple.
Now there really is a few options you can take. That is:
1) Go total AFC and that is what your mentioning here (By moving over there) already you have demonstrated you would sacrifice your own happiness and lifestyle for her. It just won't work dude.
2) Go after other girls. Forget this girl. This is the hardest option, and the most worth while. It really is a tough decision and it is a total 50/50. Most likely though, you won't end up with her, but another girl you will meet who might just be as fun and as engaging as her.
3) Tell her how you feel, say why you love her, say that it won't work out because of the distance, and you should just remain friends. She will either a) feel upset and then make the move or b) agree and you will be great online friends who i'm sure will meet up some time in later life. Then go out and PUA.
The truth is buddy, that the course of love never did run smooth. I truly recommend you don't game this girl. It will not work. What I can suggest, and this is the ultimate best 4th option. Is to keep her as a friend. Then create a hugely successful fun lifestyle. Meet new people, build huge social circles, have a passion, a dream and get out there and achieve it! If she truly is the girl you will spend your life or you next few years with, then trust me man. She will come running for you.
I'm happy to help you get over the next 2 weeks mate of getting over this as much as I can, but from then on you HAVE to get out there. Have fun, and enjoy life dude!
Work hard, Play hard players! Oh and Man up, girls like men.