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    Default Thought is was going good...

    Hey guys, first post, and new to the game.
    Alrite, so I asked out this amazing HB10 that's on my coed kickball team, and we went on a great date. Tailgating and a baseball game. Spent like 6 hours together and never a dull moment. We texted all week, seemed to still have a connection when we had our kickball game on Thursday. Here's the problem. We went out with a group of friends last night, and the plan was for a bonfire at my place afterward. Instead, she ditched to go to a show with some of her friends in the middle of the evening and returned later. I stayed at my place because I had other people to entertain. So she gets to my place finally with her friends and it seemed like I was totally froze out. Had difficulty getting into the conversation with her work friends. Texted her this morning just to see if we were cool, she said sorry for the weirdness, and that she drank too much (as did I). I don't know if I've been too slow to establish a physical connection (I thought for sure I was going to kiss-closed last nite) or if I was getting too AFC. I haven't texted her back yet, but I would like to get another date before I see her at kickball Thursday, I think it would be awkeward otherwise. Thanks for any input.

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    Update, she sent me a second text apoligizing after I didn't respond, and wants to hang out again. So I'll be seeing her Wednesday, see what happens. Still could use input on how to approach this date/situation.

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    Default Re: Thought is was going good...

    My advice is don't do anything she will think is retribution for her ill behavior. I would make a joke out of it though. Call her a light weight or something. Jokingly of course, but this will create a sense of her needing to justify her actions/behavior to you.

    I would even use it against her to get a kiss close, sort of like a bribe, but in a flirtatious funny way.

    Don't overdo it, and don';t linger onto it to much. If you act like it bothers you, well then she got you in her hands. You have to act like it isn't a big deal to you. You need to keep control of the situation, not her. She already apologized, so that's good. You got a step ahead in that sense.

    From what it seems, she wasn't purposely freezing you out that night. She probably just was nervous in front of friends and stuff and didn't want to seem like she was so into you. When alcohol gets a hold of girls, there emotions come out. She might of been scared to just be open about it. Which yeah, kind of corny, but that might be what she was thinking. She might of just wanted to play it cool, but it sort of backfired. It's not like anything you do Wednesday (ie, freeze her out or act cold during the date) would really benefit at this point. The point where it should of been done is that day she was acting that way. I would of acted like I was having the time of my life and just go on doing my thing. From what it seems, you played well that night because she did apologize 2x. So just be fun on the date. Joke with her about things, and get that damn kiss close you want.


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