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    MattyP is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Where do I stand?

    This is my first time here but I really need some help. I have been talking to this girl for about two weeks now and we ended up going on a date this past Saturday. The date went great and we actually ended up sleeping together. I drove her home Sunday morning, she said she had a great time and we kissed goodbye. All seemed well by this point. However ever since then it seems like she doesn't really want to talk to me. I have been texting her and she seems to have really delayed responses (like an hour or more) and after a couple texts back and forth she will just stop responding. I haven't texted her all day now after trying to set up a second date yesterday and having her not text back. What should I do, does it seem like this is going anywhere or not?

    Just some more back up info, I am a Sophomore in college and she is a Freshman.

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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    possible she was just looking for a One Night Stand. but with out a transcript of your texts can't give u much info. Although i can say that you have lowered your dhv by chasing her. Stop texting her for awhile. If u can post the transcript so we can better help you. Otherwise wait a until next week and text her something witty that doesnt sound like you want to date her.

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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    For me, I always like to be classic and call me old fashioned, a phone call will get you an answer, if she doesn't pick up or never call you, just send a text like this.. "hey, tried calling you to see how you are doing, call me back when you can".. short, sweet and simple.. shows you care, but very casual level, to avoid scaring her.

    She may be busy, and she may have a life away from you, so she may be delayed in responding. my advice is to call her and see whats up... or simply go out and meet more girls! she's not the only one with a va-J-J or good looking for that matter.

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    MattyP is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    Well the texts were pretty much just like seeing how she was doing with the reading and test I know she had for this week and she said that she was doing good but had a lot more to do. I asked her if she was doing anything at all today (this was last night) and then that is when she didn't respond. I haven't texted her all today, and the day before she didn't really say anything and it ended up with a 3 text conversation and that's it.

    She did seem like she wasn't just looking for a 1 night stand because well we were talking for a little bit before the date and we had already talked about doing it again some time (not the sleeping together but just like hanging out/ going on a second date.)

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    maybe you're texting too much and freaking her out as a clingy type....

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    MattyP is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    Yea I already pretty much decided to not text her for a while unless she texts me first, but I just hope I didn't already blow it.

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    MattyP is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    Sorry for the bump but I haven't talked to the girl since Tuesday but I think it would be nice if I called her tomorrow to see if she wants to do anything. I was wondering if you guys have any tips for me for what to say or if I should even go for it.

    I know I can at least fake the confidence I am lacking right now over the phone but I wanted some help first.

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    just make it casual and randoms .. say a few jokes she liked the time you saw her and go from there.. the objective iis to get a date #2...

    so I'd suggest that you ask how she's doing and such, then move to "hey, there's this cool restaurant I drove by the other day and wnated to try it on Wednesday. you free?! "

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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    wait her out, at some point she will contact you again. in the meantime go after another HB

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    Default Re: Where do I stand?

    matty,

    i agree with a lot of the guys posting for you...they have the right idea! bigmigs point on dhv is huge though, when you keep texting her and she is taking forever to repsond... this is a sign of disinterest or maybe she is busy... either way the goal of a PUA is to have HER be the one texting you and wanting to make plans...and it seems right now your the one chasing her. this is the number1 thing an AFC does, dont be that guy! i would def go out A LOT, meet more hot bitches, and build a roster... this way ull have so many options and if this1 doesnt hit u back... thats her loss... NOT YOURS!


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