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    Slick is offline PUA in Training
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    Default First date since last year!

    Hey guys! Been following the forum for the past year but this is my first post. I've finally gotten better at my text game and I've got this HB to agree on getting lunch tomorrow. The HB is LTR material, so I was wondering what would be the best way to escalate for this girl? I'm not looking for one nighters, I want a serious gf.


    I'm a lil nervous because it's been over a year since I've been on a 'real' date. I'm worried about the conversation flow. Do you guys have any ideas how to keep it less awkward?

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    Default Re: First date since last year!

    So, it's time for the first date. First dates are a mix of excitement and fear with the latter occurring because you just don't want to mess it up. If you are looking for a serious relationship and feel that she fits into that category then build rapport by seeing what kind of chemistry you guys have.Take the lead of the conversation.You can get really creative and save money by inviting her for a walk down the beach. Just remember to be playful with her. Always show positive body language. Make her laugh and smile. Do what you can. Everyone is different and therefore prefers different people.

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    Default Re: First date since last year!

    Dude our date went well actually! There was maybe a minute of dead-air between us, all together. We seemed to be hitting it off well but when I tried to text her recently, she's been pretty unresponsive or giving me low feedback like "not shittt haha. just chilled", like wtf? I tried to play off that response but it's hard when she gives me nothing to go off of! When before our date she was giving me like paragraph responses.

    I'm trying to figure out if she's not interested or just playing hard to get. But I don't want to chase her, I need her to chase me.

    Any ideas?

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    Default Re: First date since last year!

    Hi, I'm new as well with lots of experience with LTR dating. The best thing to do is not get carried away with excitement, but establish the next face to face as soon as possible. Judging by the lack of long text messages she wants to cool things down in that department, and since you had such great conversation don't burn out all the things you could talk about in person through messages. Keep the texting down between now and the next date. About 3 a day, and never during the hours you are working, as it makes it look like you have given priority to her over your job after 1 date. Sending one on lunch break is always good. And never instantly respond to a message unless absolutely neccesary. When you set up the next date, any suggestions she makes about doing something needs to be answered with a question. If she suggest a restaurant then ask what kind of food they have, what the atmosphere is like, what part of town, etc. This shows you aren't a pushover. Don't be afraid to shoot down a suggestion to keep yourself out of a miserable situation. For instance, if you are a bad dancer don't go dancing just to make her happy. Save showing her your weaknesses for later.
    Last edited by runninonempty; 10-10-2011 at 06:48 PM.

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    Default Re: First date since last year!

    I was thinking about having her come bowling with me? (MY townn is small with no beaches, parks, malls (45 mins away), ect. The only fun thing we have is a sports center (go carts, putt putt, batting cages, driving range) But weather's getting cold. Normally around winter time, I can get some girls to go snowboarding.

    I don't have a way of getting her attraction sparked again, through a text at least. I need to open her with something and then transition.

    I need ideas for this. ^^^^^

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    Default Re: First date since last year!

    I'm new here, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

    I'd say it's good to remember that a good conversation is not an interrogation. I've heard you can project yourself more effectively and prompt more interesting answers through statements as opposed to questions.

    "You look like you're in a good mood"
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    "How are you?"

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    Default Re: First date since last year!

    Sorry, just scrolled down and realized you already had the date.


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