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    Default Getting old friend 2 like me!

    ok so went 2 high schoiol with this girl who i liked. havent seen her in 3yrs she says she is talking 2 some1 alrdy but not dating. i chilled with her last night and realized i still liked her. im friends with her but since i havent seen her in a while we r kinda starting over. id like 2 date her.....any advice??

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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    Well. What is your current relationship like? Does she already know you are interested? Has she shown you any ioi's? You haven't really given enough information for me to accurately determine what advice I can give on this situation.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

    Be the flame, not the moth.

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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    Quote Originally Posted by In The Tropics View Post
    Well. What is your current relationship like? Does she already know you are interested? Has she shown you any ioi's? You haven't really given enough information for me to accurately determine what advice I can give on this situation.
    she doesnt know im interested....we r just friends now...not so much. none that in noticed so far. i dont wanta wait 2 long though u know what im sayin

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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    Well. Start by disqualifying her. Say it's great that you have known each other for so long and that she is like the little sister you never had. This can help her to start thinking of you in that way, because you sort of told her you aren't interested. Then you need to start flirting with her a little bit, and try to escalate some Kino and see how she responds to that. If she starts giving you some ioi's reward them with little IOI's of your own. Couple that with some IOD's and you can create Push Pull. That will help you to start building attraction if there is not any there currently.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    but see if i go as far as the hole lil sis i never had thing. doesnt that pretty much go 2 the "friend zone" where i dont wanta be lol. cause i cant forget she is also talking 2 another guy. like if it dont work its w.e but id like it 2 cause of who it is lol

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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    Well you just have to blow the other guy out. Putting a girl in the friend zone instead of her putting you there works in the opposite. She automatically wonders why you don't see her as a potential girl to date.

    It is an actual PUA technique. There are other ways to disqualify a girl as well, but in your situation I think that is what you need to do.
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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    true. i think i see where ur coming from. that could bite me in the ass lol. but i guess ill give it a shot lol

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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    Here is another mpua philosophy. "You have to be willing to lose a girl in order to get her." -neil strauss (style)

    Mystery says the same thing. Also, it is important not to get oneitis man. Then you worry about and try too hard for one girl. Then you do AFC stuff and screw it up.

    I mean telling this girl you dig her and want to date her DEFINITELY not going to work. Unless she is head over heels for you already.
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    Default Re: Getting old friend 2 like me!

    ya i def hear u on that 1 lol


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