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    Default after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    so I told the girl I liked her, and she said.. "you're so cute!! xoxo you know I enjoy our friendship and it's what I want for now, who knows what will happen later on. We're in school together the next 3 years together! you knew that."

    is there any chance of changing her mind with ANY actions or words of wisdom? I am patient, but I feel that since it's all out now, might as well get it all out.

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    idk man...me personally i wouldnt have told her you liked her..

    right now your best bet is to pay more attention to other girls...let her see that your rejection did not phase you..

    is should show her that your the prize and that she may not get that chance again.

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    I feel ur pain, same thing happened to me...today

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    its not a direct rejection, what shes hinting at is that theres plenty of time for you to get to know her truly and the same for her. pretty much: take it slow, youve got so much time, and you know, its a wise thing to keep in mind.

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    i got that message from her too, but I either want to develop something or not waste anymore time.. i do take my schoo more of a priority and it's a drag...

    so this weekend, I applied a freezeout and didn't respond to any of her texts... she sent one saying .. "it's a little awkward not hearing from you for a few days, I hope all is alright. have a great night" ....

    what can I respond to that to up my value? and is this freezeout working? or her being a genuine friend?

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    Quote Originally Posted by penguin View Post
    i got that message from her too, but I either want to develop something or not waste anymore time.. i do take my schoo more of a priority and it's a drag...

    so this weekend, I applied a freezeout and didn't respond to any of her texts... she sent one saying .. "it's a little awkward not hearing from you for a few days, I hope all is alright. have a great night" ....

    what can I respond to that to up my value? and is this freezeout working? or her being a genuine friend?
    Since it seems like you guys are already somewhat decent friends, you can't really just straight up ignore her without her thinking something is wrong. For one, she might think you're mad at her because she indirectly rejected you and that's not the message you want to send. Ideally you want to show that her "rejection" didn't even phase you. Secondly this is just going to make things awkward and if anything you'll probably just confuse her. I would respond to her texts and pretend like everything's alright, but provide somewhat shorted answers - almost as if you're too busy to talk. And then tell her you'll text/call her later. And then if you want to continue the freezeout you can apologize later for not getting back to her. Freezeouts do work, but you have to go about them the right way.

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pzark41 View Post
    Since it seems like you guys are already somewhat decent friends, you can't really just straight up ignore her without her thinking something is wrong. For one, she might think you're mad at her because she indirectly rejected you and that's not the message you want to send. Ideally you want to show that her "rejection" didn't even phase you. Secondly this is just going to make things awkward and if anything you'll probably just confuse her. I would respond to her texts and pretend like everything's alright, but provide somewhat shorted answers - almost as if you're too busy to talk. And then tell her you'll text/call her later. And then if you want to continue the freezeout you can apologize later for not getting back to her. Freezeouts do work, but you have to go about them the right way.
    I like this answer. It's pretty much what I was thinking. Esp the part about making it seem like you're too busy for her. Esp if you can drop hints or whatever to make it seem like you're with other girls, and that's why you're too busy for her. Even if you're not with others. Even if you're sitting in your room looking at LOLCats or something.

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    Quote Originally Posted by penguin View Post
    so I told the girl I liked her, and she said.. "you're so cute!! xoxo you know I enjoy our friendship and it's what I want for now, who knows what will happen later on. We're in school together the next 3 years together! you knew that."

    is there any chance of changing her mind with ANY actions or words of wisdom? I am patient, but I feel that since it's all out now, might as well get it all out.
    First of all, you NEVER tell a girl how you feel (except if you are in relationship already).. You have to make it happen and show it to her, but not in an AFC way.. And you can`t change her mind with arguments and talking or whatever. DON`T DO THAT! Just make it happen. Emotions don`t work in a logical way. You have to appeal to somewhere else. Girls is not a market where you negotiate for a price or smth.

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    Default Re: after the rejection, I didn't like the answer so what's next?

    yea man your chances with her are pretty much finished, just move on


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