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    joker5811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation have a problem with girl that i want a relationship with

    Ok here is the situation. I met a girl at a place that i was doing security at a few months ago who was dating some guy at the time. we became friends because I thought I had no chance with her. I told her about me picking up the women that i have and all of the adventures and crazy shit that has happened. Well about a 2 months ago her and her bf started having problems. I gave her advice like a good friend should. Well a month ago i changed jobs and on my last day there, she told me that if anything happened between her and bf that she would call me for a fuck buddy. She called me the next week and asked me to start running with her. Well on the first day that we went running i grabbed her after the run and just kissed her just to convey confidence more. we have teased each other since. about 2 weeks ago her and her bf broke up. We still havent fucked yet and she keeps saying that she isnt that easy which i know she just doesnt want me to think less of her. last week we were going running at the park and saw a flyer about how the park was doing a haunted forest thing and i said i wanted to go. She stated that she didnt want to because she didnt like stuff like that. so i forgot all about it. well 2 days later she told me that she wanted to go with me to it. so friday we went and she held on to my arm like we were dating. Well about 3 weeks ago i realized that i really would like to settle down with this girl and actually have a relationship. so after the haunted trail thing, i told her that i liked her in that way. well she told me that she didnt think she could date me because she knew too much about me. well when i asked her if she liked me like that. she smiled and said, "i pleade the fifth." i have asked alot of my friends that are girls and they say that she is just playing hard to get so i need to know what to do. Please help

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    JayW is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: have a problem with girl that i want a relationship with

    Either she's playing hard to get, or she's actually concerned about how you will be since she knows so much. Maybe she thinks you'll be cheating on her constantly or something.

    I wish I could help you more. If you've laid it all out honestly and she's still being like this, I'd say tell her to shit or get off the pot, stop playing hard to get because you're not into games. Yeah there's a good chance she'll be a bitch and walk, but that's the worst that can happen, right? So roll the dice.

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    thepimpjuicex is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: have a problem with girl that i want a relationship with

    You should have waited a few more dates before you told her you liked her, you may have scared her off, since she just got out of a relationship.

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    Default Re: have a problem with girl that i want a relationship with

    I agree with Jay W, honesty is the best way to go!

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    Default Re: have a problem with girl that i want a relationship with

    I agree with the pimpjuicex. It sounds like shes more in a "fun" mode than 'relationship' mode. She went to you BECAUSE of the things she knows about you. She just ended a significant relationship and came to you....not because she wanted a relationship, but because she wants something carefree and fun ( a rebound of sorts). You did kind of fuck up when you said you liked her for a serious thing. Shes not playing hard to get, shes letting you know she doesnt want to go that route.

    Here is your dilema.... you can salvage this by remaining the cool fun guy and dont try to force her to see you as a soulmate, instead just be fun and let her come to you on her own terms once she realizes that she likes you. I would mix in some gentelmanly things here and there while still being the fun carefree guy. But This could backfire in that she would never see you as more than just a fark buddy or a fun friend. Thats the chance you are going to have to take.

    I suggest having fun with her but date around. I wouldn't wait for this girl to get all her shit together after a breakup. In fact it might be good to start distancing yourself from here little by little.


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