This is my current situation that I need some advice on...
A few months back I met a girl. Incredibly cute, very smart, and very similar interests as me. I have never met a woman who has had as much in common with me. I blew it though. We hung out, but due to circumstance(i.e. ex-girlfriend break-up) I neglected to put forth effort to her. I take full responsibility for this.
She now has a boyfriend, but I think it is very "temporary". She is NOT a slut by any means, but I think that she is kind of afraid of being alone(hence the boyfriend).
She still keeps in contact with me, and I think she has been waiting for me to make a move for the past 6 or 7 months.
I have to emphasize that I do no think she is a slut(although I have been wrong before). She is smart, and likes everything I do. She can hold up her end of the conversation(which is what I find most appealing).
I have been gone for a few months, and want to return home with a game plan. I want to play my cards perfectly.
My question is, what can I do? Should work on a good rapport with her? Anything specific?
I do not intend on breaking them up(although I wouldn't be sad if they did), but I think she is right for me, and I think I am right for her.
I would appreciate all input. Thanks.