Re: Need help with cute girl that I like
First get her sober. See if things click and BE YOURSELF. The drink is meant to loosen tongues (and bodies) but should not be the clicher for a relationship! In other words if you want to spark interest get to know one another without the alcohol, spark interest when you both have clear heads and move on from there. Pay attention to the ioi's, hold her in eye contact, grab her hand during extensive conversations (when appropriate!) and shoot her a couple jokes from time to time. Your goal is to get her to show emotion to you. Once she starts doing that openly (to you) and allows you to do such stuff as hold her hand or hug her easily then you know the interest, for her, is there.
Note though that this may not happen all in one date. Spread it out if you have to. You are looking for a relationship, so don't drop any BOMBSHELLS. Always remember Bad Guys = Girlfriend | Good Guys = Intimate Longer Term Relationships.
OH! Until you are both completely relaxed with one another do NOT move forward with sex. Many times you will both enjoy it to it's fullest extent but you may find that she starts to pull away. Be careful using this card, it CAN and WILL work against you.
Last edited by Phylar; 12-10-2011 at 12:36 PM.
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Throughout history the predator has gone in for the kill. So swoop in and bite her where it feels good, perhaps your potential kill will become fresh meat indeed.