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    Default Bar pickup role play

    Hi guys, this is my first post here, so here goes...

    I have a first date this weekend with a girl I met online. We're both in our early 40's. We've been texting a lot and while we haven't quite "sexted" we've been exchanging pretty explicit texts about making out with each other.

    She mentioned that she's never been picked up in a bar, so I suggested that we start our date by role-playing that I pick her up. We both thought this sounded pretty exciting. Problem is, I've never actually picked up a girl at a bar before.

    Now, this is pretty much a sure thing so I'm thinking it will be a good opportunity for me to get some experience and build my confidence, but I could still use some tips to make sure I don't blow the rest of the date. I really want her to see me as confident and attractive so we can spend the rest of the night making our make-out fantasies come true.

    So, any tips on anything from logistics to body language to openers, etc would be appreciated.

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Bar pickup role play

    Well, since you already have her attention & she's basically agreed to go along with it, you can BE confident. (Not just "seem" like it)

    Make it fun & be a little bolder than you might normally would be otherwise.

    She's pretty much saying "yes" ahead of time to whatever you may bring up... so she's most likely more adventurous than you even suspect.


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    First of all... Niceeeeee...

    For body language I'd recommend imitating George Clooney as Danny Ocean and buolding sexual Tension with strong eye contact (not too much tho) and a devious slight smile.

    Logistics, I'd keep it simple and diverse. Maybe drinks, a walk, dinner, a walk, drinks, aaaand back to your place. (One of those walks can be a drive to "this great bar or restaurant I know" which happens to be near your place if the meet up isn't near.

    Of course there's nothing wrong with holding off on sex until the 2nd, 3rd or 4th date

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    Thanks guys. Any recommended openers? I was thinking of just walking over to her and saying something like "Hi, I hope you don't mind me saying this but I noticed you from over there and think you look really amazing in that dress. Is that from some famous designer I should know about?"

    I know she's into designer dresses and will probably be wearing something nice.

    Any other ideas?

    P.S. At this point we've done some pretty explicit sexting. The anticipation of being with her is killing me but incredibly exciting.

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    If she's into the "being picked up role playing scenario", I'd just go ultra direct, because you already know she WANTS to be "picked up".

    "Heya, You should buy me a drink... and then we'll get outa here & go back to my place where we can have some privacy. Because, you look a little outa place here..." *smile/wink.

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    Yeah super direct, super alpha, super ballsy is the way to go.

    "Who makes your dress?"
    Her: "whatever she says"
    "It would look better on my floor" *strong eye contact, only slight smile* "I'm Reginold." *take her hand, kiss it*

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    Default Re: Bar pickup role play

    Watch the opening scene of Wedding crashers for some great ideas too!

    That whole scene is, Reese Witherspoon & Vince Vaughn role-playing that Vince's character is picking her up in a bar.

    The transition from his "shy / beta" approach to flat out Badass, is classic!


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    Default Re: Bar pickup role play

    Wedding Crashers?

    *Four Christmases

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Watch the opening scene of Wedding crashers for some great ideas too!

    That whole scene is, Reese Witherspoon & Vince Vaughn role-playing that Vince's character is picking her up in a bar.

    The transition from his "shy / beta" approach to flat out Badass, is classic!
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    Default Re: Bar pickup role play

    Ohhhh!!! Yes!!
    I JUST watched Wedding crashers the other night...
    so I totally mixed those up.
    Four Christmases is the one!!!
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    Default Re: Bar pickup role play

    That was hilarious, thanks guys. I think I'll shoot for somewhere in-between Vince Vaughn's opening and ending approach, seeing as how this is our first date.


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