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Old 04-24-2010, 06:17 PM
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Question Swallowing problem

I have that swallowing problem in fron of hot girls. Is it a good idea to eat something (inorder to hide my swallowing) like potato chips or jellybones until I get used to them? And it might me a good idea to give to them some to show my food provider side?



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Old 04-24-2010, 06:21 PM
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Default Re: Swallowing problem

no do something so it cant be seen as wierd...like chewing gum or something..but eating would be a little wierd as well


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Old 04-26-2010, 03:19 AM
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It's funny that you mention the swallowing thing, I knew exactly what you were talking about before I even read this. In all honesty, stay the hell away from eating potato chips, talking to girls with a full mouth is a social no-no. Gum could help, but that could also backfire and lead to more bad habits, ie. playing with the gum, swallowing the gum, etc. If I were you I'd attack the root of your problem, versus simply trying to cover it up with a makeshift solution. It's like putting a band aid on a gash. That might work for a little while, but at the end of the day, unless you stitch the gash, it's not going to heal. The problem you have is that your body is using a defense mechanism through a physical state, being that swallowing thing you were talking about. What you need to do is train yourself to stop doing that. I used to have the same problem, and what I did was always reinforce proper behavior whenever I did that. When approaching hot women, I initially strayed to old habits and would swallow hard when talking to them. To remind myself that I didn't want to continue that habit, I would tap my palm on my thigh two times, almost like I was high fiving my thigh softly. I know, it sounds weird, but here's the reason why I did that. First of, it wasn't obvious at all to the girls that I was doing that, it's not like I hit myself over the top of my head or something. A simple pat on the thigh appears to be natural body language, and gives off a free, almost sort of nonchalant attitude in the conversation, which helps the interaction as well by keeping it comfortable. Additionally, through physically reinforcing the reminder to myself that what I was doing was a bad habit, I got that thought in my mind, and told my body to stop that action, after which my body would respond by taking a second to regain composure, and adjust itself. I know, it's weird at first, but by constantly reinforcing your body that that is a bad habit, you'll always be able to readjust your mind and eventually the bad habit will be replaced by better habits. Try it and let me know how it goes.


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Default Re: Swallowing problem

Try the gum. Sounds like your just nervous. That's will fade with more approachs. Perfect praticeake perfect. So can some materialand just go out and run it. When u get over the nervousness the swallowing thing will work itself out.


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Old 05-13-2010, 10:59 AM
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find a hypnotist like one that does stop smoking one on one hypnosis
pay em cash


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Old 08-18-2010, 08:07 PM
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I agree with tcomea2, I think you're just nervous. If that's the case, then you can actually condition yourself to be in situations with hot girls. For example, a well known PUA (Style???) would practice his lines after running up and down stairs... to mimic his accelerated heart rate, and shortness of breath in front of hot women. I think you can do something similar.

If the source is the BEAUTY of the women, then you can condition yourself psychologically... make her NOT so beautiful in your mind. Find her imperfections (there are ALWAYS imperfections... if not, then get her number for me please ). Once you get your brain to recognize her as a normal human like yourself, and not some deity, then your swallowing problem should go away. However, there will be some side effects to this training if it works... you will uncover negs by finding her imperfections, you will be calmer (more relaxed and cool looking to her), and your kisses will not have that 'minty' taste (gum makes your breath too minty sometimes, and in my experience, it can ruin an otherwise pleasurable kiss). If these side effects are acceptable to you, then go ahead and give it a try. Good luck my friend!


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