Totally new to this

Chris that made me laugh so hard man....

Also, you keep asking for proven openers.

For me situational openers are awesome, I find they are the ones that can get me most into the conversation.

Opinionated openers are best, just ask a girl something where she will give you an opinion back, it will really get her talking.

Fitting small DHVs into your openers is a nice trick.

An Opener that would meet all of these is something like this:
Standing in line at a clothing store, she is buying a dress.

Me: "Oh sh1t" <---Loudly, obviously directed at her.
Her: "What?"
Me: "You cannot buy that dress!"
Her: "Haha why not?"
Me: "That dress is bad luck, my sister wore the same one when we were on a trip to Ireland and she fell and broke her leg."
Her: "Oh my god I'm sorry."
Me: "It's okay, she was like 13 then, haha my names X whats yours?"

thanks im gona try something like that. I just need to learn how to dhv. i dont have low self esteem but honestly i dont see anything i did over the past few years that is of high value or would Attract A Girl .

i cant wait till im 21 to drink n do wild things

you dont have to wait till you 21 to live an exciting life dude! Get out there and do something you have never done before. I use skydiving stories all the time in set, i am a licensed skydiver with alot of experience so i have tons of funny and intresting stories about it. I know guys who use stories about scuba, rockclimbing, mountain bikeing, all kinds of things. Just push you limits a little bit and you will be amazed how much fun and excitment you can add to your life.

do you guys think it would be a good idea to friendzone a girl. it would be an attractive one @ that but you know to maybe get me more comfortable(consider ing i was never solo with a girl for more than 20 mins)

this would be life best friends or like a friend that replaces a guy friend i hang out with 5/7 times out of the week.

idk why i just think im wierd or something. this only happens sometimes but when im trying PUA in the mall on some random girl sometimes my heart will race SUPER FAST. i mean super fast like my life is in danger. under that pressure i can barely speak correctly. Im not sure how its even that serious but in my head im not that nervous but my body is the opposite.

(That happened when my buddy bet me $$$ to get Number Close on a random HB) but has happened before.

i have been working on my "hey how you doing/how is your day" though.

To the first post yeah it can't hurt. I have tons of hbs in my phone that I have become great friends with. You don't have to try to fark everything moving. Female friends will raise your value and make you more comfortable.

To the second issue that's pure aa. You only get over thi by running tons of openers.You have to learn that rejection happens and that it happens even to the best. Just learn from it and move on. Your going to get blown out... Get over it! Search these forums and find a real canned opener that you can run. When you walk up to a HB and say hi how are, I'm ___ what's your name? That way AFC and not a real opener. Anyone can do that, and all afcs do. If you want the hb10s and you want them in your bed then your going to hve to be different. There are tons of programs that can teach you this stuff. Get one, devour the info and apply it!

i couldnt agree more, the way to get over a feeling of fear is too put yourself into it all the time. if your afraid of flying, if you flew like everyday for two months, after that it would seem not so bad at all. next thing, i actually have some friends who are girls that i could literally ask "hey could i make out with you and try some stuff to be a better kisser or to get over my fear of the first kiss blah blah blah " and they would have no problem, so i actually would suggest to get a girl that thinks your hot and wouldnt mind something like that, even the "hey could you teach me better foreplay sh1t" haha i know that sounds completely wierd but i have at least five girls in my phone that i could send that too exactly and be getting down in about 10 minutes. so i would suggest getting friends who are girls especially ones who are not shy or timid and would be down for some stuff like that to help you and get personal enjoyment

you guys are the best help thanks alot. im gona try to find some good read or sh1t to buy to help out.

lol def. and then just coming on here when you do mess up and getting advice will sharpen your skills. i warn you now, there are always lots of rejection and you have to get used to it until your really good.