Totally new to this

Ugh where to start. Basic info(embarrasing to put this out there, but then again this is the interwebz).


-virgin

-18 y/o

-attractive

-black(not a bad thing just sayin)

-no dates/kisses

Basically from what i noticed now that i have a job in the mall. I do have severe aa. I stare Hbs down all the time but i dont say anything. Just freeze up n look at em. Honestly i wont even lie i probably am a boring person and i dont have low self esteem its just true. I w ould like to tell chicks crazy stories or whatever but honestly i dont have any as all ive done my life is work/toke. Im kinda wondering where to start. I work in the mall so there are HB everywhere.

Basically im just looking to get my meat wet asap. I dont care about other Sh1t because im not even sure of my sexuality(def not gay just hetero or perhaps asexual). Not 21 so i cant go into the bar.



what i plan on doing so far.

- I looked at a thread about a guy sayin its a good idea to keep a notepad of fun things to talk about(so i bought one) what are some of things you suggest i put in there to keep a conversation nice and flowing .

-Openers. Ok read a post where a guy uses "tell me the worst way you would reject me blah blah blah" so i guess it makes you comfortable with getting rejected. Im going to try this but today i also forced my self to try to say "hello how are you doing" to the hbs i seen walking by. Im fairly attractive so most of the time the ladies put the head down walking by me. For now im only comfortable saying hello to girls i make eye contact with. Is this okay , do most guys do this? about 3/4 chicks today responded(not with convo but with "fine" . Ok what are some routine or openers to say JUST INCASE a female gives me some play after i say hello. I dont want my mind being blank.

any/all advice appreciated

mike

AFCKID-
Ok before we can even start to get you ready to sarge we need to work on you a bit here. You sound a lot like a lot of people who get into the community; Young inexperienced, unsure of what they want, and timid. WE have to get you away from that before you can properly run game. This is because you have to be different from everyone else. So what am I telling you, don’t worry about openers, DVH stories or other things right now, worry about your inner game. Reason being is that if your not solid in yourself you will never be able to properly approach, open, dvh, build confort, Kino, venue change, esculate, and close. Girls have a 6th sense about this kind of thing and can figure out if a guy is full of sh1t or if he is for real. This is called frame control. And in my opinion it is the most important thing to running solid game. Reason being is that you have to be happy with yourself and happy with what you are before you can make anyone else happy. And as David D says always leave them better than you found them. So if the only you are looking for is to get laid, this isn’t for you. If you are looking become a better man, with solid values and solid goals who can translate the game to every part of your life and to get beautiful women whos lives you can enrich while they enrich yours then welcome to the community. And I will be more than happy to help.

With that said what are your goals, with women, and with life.

You said you don’t have fun stories cause your boring, well stop being boring. Go skydiving, be spontaneous, make crazy choices that you wouldn’t normally expect. Live life with the attitude that its about having fun and experiencing as much as you can. This is how you build those stories by living life.

Are you a student, or will you be a student in the fall?

Lets talk about this some and then we can look at some openers or other exercises that can help you open a set.

finished my first semester at community college and im going back in the fall. Goals? Im not sure i havnt thought about it yet. Im Gonna research inner game because im not sure what that is.

check out The Social Mans product called unbreakable. Its about frame control and has some great information.

Here's the link: unbreakable

Thanks Bill

yeah what you need to do is practice inner game and maybe get your feet wet. Try overcoming your apporach anxiety and then make some mistakes. Of course your not going to be perfect. so get out there and try approaching some women and trying some things out to see what works for you and what doesnt. the biggest thing is apporach anxiety.

watched to of my friends open on random hbs yesterday and today. They only started out with hey how you doing. And asked them their names after that. One of em got a phone #. Hm is it a good idea to try with this simple Opener for starters?

First of all best thing you can do for self esteem, because you mentioned you're toking (no comment), is WORK OUT. Just 20-30 mins a day will have you FEELING 100% better. 15-20 mins in the morning, and again before bed. Raises ENDORPHINS (happiness) and TESTOSTERONE (man juice) that will make you smell, look, & sound better to women. They can smell a man, and me thinks this little increase in your esteem, will get you in the right direction and have women noticing and maybe even opening with you.
It's free, its fool proof, and it's proven. want chicks? work out. You dont have to be a body builder or a stud, just improve YOU OWN LEVEL of testoserone and endorphins, you'll be way happier, even before the girls start noticing!!

Second thing. Get some blind. some flare, some... I forget what real PUAs call it. And I dont mean a pheasant feather or Dr. suess hat (no offence to the god of gods, master of kings, pimp of playboys, Mystery..) Just a nice gold chain $3-500, or silver if thats out of your range $1-300, or some dimond ear studs... doesn't have to be out of hand but a little eye catching luster will catch their eye and goes with everything.. even scrub get-ups, which I wear day to day, look great with a $500 yellow and white gold italian link necklace. Get lots of comment and wash it every couple days. Girls, being materialistic by biological decree are looking for a provider and a man who can put by stores of wealth (food for the chillens) and also not be tempted to sell it everytime they need rent or some dope... This seems trivial, but it's a one time investment that will not only reel in chicks, but increase in value almost daily due to the price of gold and silver. Ebay is a good place to get bling used for under cost.

Since you WORK at the mall... you are my hero, you have EVERY opportunity to talk to every chick who walks by, ITS YOUR JOB. "Can I help you find some shoes today ladies?" "Anything in particular you're shopping for today?" Poooooour on the smile and the 'its my job to address you' and dont let a hot one pass. I miss working in the public eye because I honestly got over half my dates from the sales floor, working produce in a kroger store!! 18-38.. women shopping healthy everyday

It's called peacocking. And to do it to the extrem takes alot of confidence and balls