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How To Approach Women

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Old 06-01-2010, 09:29 PM
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I am quite new to this PUA stuff and I need some help. There is a really hot girl in my class but I have never have had a conversation with her. How would I approach her and begin a conversation and then get her number. I am not nervous to talk to girls I just want to know what to say.


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Old 06-01-2010, 10:42 PM
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Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

lol there is too many ways you could take it. what were you thinking about saying and maybe we will refine what you wanted to say


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Old 06-02-2010, 05:02 AM
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Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

my biggest problem is opening the convo. I'm not sure what to say other than hi or hey and keep the convo interesting. I have some ideas of how to close the convo keep it interesting in the middle such as asking her an opinion question. The biggest help i need is introducing myself and starting a conversation in a school setting. I would love to have some examples that work best in this situation


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Old 06-02-2010, 11:53 AM
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lol well school setting is easy...just open her about needing help or some crap and then introduce yourself and keep solid eye contact and then just move away from the school subject and try and make her laugh and tease her. its quite easy. lets say your taking chemistry. " you come sit down next to her and ask if she can help you with something like molecular structure. then introduce yourself, let her try to explain and then try teasing her, not about the school work but something silly. and then you can just make her laugh and then the actually closing can be when class starts so then after class you can approach her, reopen her and go for the Number Close.


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Old 06-02-2010, 01:53 PM
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And if I were not going to ask her to help me with something of school work would their be any other that would be just as engaging? And btw thank you for the help


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Old 06-02-2010, 02:04 PM
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well yeah you can literally do anything that is new, playful, interesting, funny and gets her attracted. how about you just give me a few ideas and ill fix what u want to do. its easier for you to change your style than it is to just adopt my style.


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Old 06-02-2010, 05:17 PM
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Ok here is one i thought of...

"Can I ask your opinion on something? Who do you think lies more men or women and why?"

she answers

"Wow, I have never thought of that before, by the way my names is ____________ and you are?"

she says here name

at this point I am a little lost on examples of teasing.

to close i was thinking of saying

"I have to get to class but i really enjoyed talking with you. Maybe we could talk more sometime, whats your number?"

Number is given

and thats what i could think up. Please critique.


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Old 06-02-2010, 05:33 PM
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lol well opinionated Opener was pretty good but that routine is so weak. you didnt really make her laugh at all and you dont have any ideas on how to neg her or make it fun. that is kind of lame and not fun for her at all.


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Old 06-02-2010, 06:00 PM
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here is another.

"Can I ask your opinion on something? Who do you think lies more men or women and why?"

"That reminds me, have you ever played the cube game before?"

"Come over here and I'll show you, having other people around effects the results."

"Btw my name is ________________, but people usually call me (funny nickname)"

when she smiles i say "did you know your nose wiggles when you smile? Don't worry its kinda cute."

Do the cube game. (Possibly tease a little bit in the midst of the cube game)

"you know you are a really interesting person. I would love to talk to you more sometime. Whats your number?"


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Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

if you run that Opener you need a DVH story to put in there. Put it in right after she answers her first question. And dont intro yourself. It makes you look beta. this is a simple thing that alot of guys do and i think especially at this point make you seem weak.

Like crob said you need more humor in it. and opener is designed to grab her attention in order to get you locked in. Your not doing that at all here. Work a funny story into it and give it another shot.


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