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| So I'm at my bank making a simple deposit. My teller is red head HB8 and it seems like she's tossing IOIs my way. She opens me by asking what the cash was for. Told her it was going towards restoring an old motorcycle. She digs it and mentions something about accomplishing one's goals. But that's where the game kind of fell off. Conversation degenerated into small talk but when I left she was still very warm. Next visit, week and a half or so later, I go in to make another deposit and she's there with two other tellers. One motions me forward and the HB8 was very quick to volunteer to help me instead (!). She remembers that I'm fixing a bike and chats me up about that too. After that, it's basically a repeat of what happened the first time. It's not a social spot like a club or bar, but I can tell there's interest there and I want to try to move it forward. Maybe to a cafe or something close by after she gets off? But my lack of game makes things hazy in between the first spoken words and getting some one on one time... How should I transition this conversation? I need some advice. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
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| after the "accomplishing goals" comment coulda said "Oh I'm sure you have fun hobbies and aspirations, what do you do with your free time?" This forces her to recipricate and qualify and leaves you with more conversation topics. "You like to ride motorcycles? I'd love to take you on a ride down the coast/beach/canyon/ scenic parkway/ etc" her: "oh that'd be fun" you: "yeah but the bike wont be done for _______ so how about we go for a drive/coffee/walk so I can decide if you're the kind of girl I wanna take on my bike.." she'll prolly laugh or blush, forced qualifier, etc. Another thing at the bank is sometimes you're waiting on your hottie and when its your turn its the wrong teller, you can turn to the next person in line and say "Go ahead, I'm waiting for my personal banker" they'll probably see this and like it, and then you didnt waste a trip to the bank and get to spend a little time with her. Also drag your business out. even though you get a balance after a deposit/ withdrawel... I always ask for that first. Then have them put your money in different accounts, you should have more than one anyways, and makes it look liek you're saving (you should be) or financially planning/spending (you should be.) Get the deposits on both accounts, will buy some time, then add $X to one and $X to the other, maybe call it your "restoration money" and some banks will let you set up another account right at the window so, more tiem with you ladyfriend. Also ask them if you approve for a credit card through them and they'll pull up and print all the junk, ask them if the have any information on housing remodeling Loans or HELOC loans, etc.. basically you can make it a 20 min transaction.. buy then you should be rounding 3rd base | |||||||||||||||||||||||
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| You could try walking in there to make a deposit with an obviously fake check. Something in the Hundred-trillion dollar range or so. Then you could smile and tell her that you were just making an excuse to see her again. By this point she should be laughing and you'll have no problem getting a number or even a date. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
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| @upurattraction. thats ok but seems a little tryhard. its would be better to merge both your guys plans. i like the idea of giving urself 20 minutes with her to allow you to do everything you can but then the joke would be good to lower her bitch shield when you go for the # close. like towards the end, just take a second to build value into what you saying next and break out the check book. write that check and turn it into a joke. she will have a confused look at then make some joke and make her laugh. then when she is laughing and its near the end but not the exact end, go for the number close. just slide her your phone on the counter and ask. then dont make the conversation go cold. this is the part where you show your high quality. what you want to do is keep a strong convo, neg her a little bit and then leave on a high point. its good to leave her laughing and attracted to you. so end it with something funny from your convo.
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