after the "accomplishing goals" comment coulda said "Oh I'm sure you have fun hobbies and aspirations, what do you do with your free time?" This forces her to recipricate and qualify and leaves you with more conversation topics.
"You like to ride motorcycles? I'd love to take you on a ride down the coast/beach/canyon/ scenic parkway/ etc" her: "oh that'd be fun"
you: "yeah but the bike wont be done for _______ so how about we go for a drive/coffee/walk so I can decide if you're the kind of girl I wanna take on my bike.." she'll prolly laugh or blush, forced qualifier, etc. Another thing at the bank is sometimes you're waiting on your hottie and when its your turn its the wrong teller, you can turn to the next person in line and say "Go ahead, I'm waiting for my personal banker" they'll probably see this and like it, and then you didnt waste a trip to the bank and get to spend a little time with her. Also drag your business out. even though you get a balance after a deposit/ withdrawel... I always ask for that first. Then have them put your money in different accounts, you should have more than one anyways, and makes it look liek you're saving (you should be) or financially planning/spending (you should be.) Get the deposits on both accounts, will buy some time, then add $X to one and $X to the other, maybe call it your "restoration money" and some banks will let you set up another account right at the window so, more tiem with you ladyfriend. Also ask them if you approve for a credit card through them and they'll pull up and print all the junk, ask them if the have any information on housing remodeling Loans or HELOC loans, etc.. basically you can make it a 20 min transaction.. buy then you should be rounding 3rd base