hot waitress situation please help

I am from a small town so there is not many places that we can eat fast food.
Becouse I live fast,I often eat fast.
From time to time I eat at my favourite place down town.
There works one HOT waitress, I can say that we became some kind of "friends"
Recently I started a relationship with one cute girl,and we were walking together
through town,and the waitress noticed that I am with a girl.
One day I came to buy my usual meal,when out of a blue she attacked me
with words such as: "Oooo,now when you are with a girl you dont
even bother sayin' hi,you are a faget,I can't beleive you,etc..."
So she said that becouse I didn't say hi to her when I was with my girl
I hawe to redeem myself to her.
But that wasn't the only time that she said that.
I forgot to mention that I negged her when I had a chance,and there was
a great amount of her validating to me.
Last night I felt a great Sexual Tension betwean us,
and I wanted to merge in but I didn't know how to.
I mean,it was crowded and I wanted to be descreet.
I was thinking hanging her my phone and asking for her digits when I had a chance
but there was her female colleague so I didn't.
Can you guys help me with this one?!
Thanks!

sounds like this waitress is attracted to you but as david deangelo says, attraction is not a choice. so as she has no option than be led by her instincts which are attracted to you she is playing a bit forward of the crease. she is playing out in front for you. your options are good. work some game on her. lead her. no need to drop her back more than is necessary by negging etc cos you have the hook in her mouth.

i have a hot waitress situation myself atm and yesterday i gave her a reality cheque as i was not happy with her attitude toward me. i was there tonight with a married friend and i started afresh. she was expecting to resume a fight and then as we didnt get a decent chat in during my stay i put my arm around her and rubbed her back as i was going. she returned the gesture warmly and rubbing my arm and feeling my shoulder she seemed to accept that we were making up or moving on. i told her that we would talk tomorrow (as i want to see her for an hour outside of the joint) and she said ok.

the thing with restaurants is we never get the scene under our control for us to operate the way we want/ there is always a third party or random event so we have to move quickly when we can and make simple directions toward getting more time with her when we can.

guage who the manager on duty is as this person can help or they can ruin it

nah it blew out with the waitress. she carried on like a goose and tried to project it on to me but she couldnt be honest about it. now i just order coffee from her and she tries to be clever but the fact is she cant see that she is the one waiting the table.

meanwhile the one i am seeing and friends with has absolutely no ownership claims on me. she just loves me for who i am and knows that i am a red blooded male who likes tomcatting. she finds my behaviour amusing cos she has a real man. twits like the waitress who had a lot of baggage dont get that far through the screen

now i got a few young ones 22-3 i want to tie on a fling thing with

my friend has her own interests and she knows that we are mates regardless. she and i dont intend to marry anyone and we have our own creative careers